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re: Ask the OT - how would you handle this - wedding drama

Posted on 6/23/22 at 10:49 am to
Posted by WildTchoupitoulas
Member since Jan 2010
44071 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 10:49 am to
Dude, that shite's going down. Jump.

Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83914 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 10:51 am to
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A little background. GF has two kids from a previous relationship. Baby daddy is a degenerate drug dealer (who has spent time in prison for such). I really don't care for the eldest child - she ran away last year and that resulted in a long and expensive custody battle with lots of drama. This kid is a mean little shite and has a mouth that makes you want to wash it out with soap (not my kid - so can't do anything but try to avoid interacting with the kid).



wtf are you still hanging around this ticking time bomb of misery for? run, don't walk! GTFO!! NOW!!!
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
7038 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 11:36 am to
Your girlfriend is going to bang a gangbanger. She’s a gangbanger banger.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 11:55 am to
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
38359 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:01 pm to
Do you and the GF live together?

If so, your house?

If not, it’s the easiest decision ever. Send her arse packing. You don’t want this to be your life. Unfortunately, baggage is baggage. You’re going to be in a “relationship” with this broad, her bitchy daughter, and the father.

That isn’t worth your damn time unless you’re a fool
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
38359 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:03 pm to
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The youngest is a decent kid - as far I can tell. Involved in a lot of activities. Is pleasant to be around. The older kid that ran away - to her drug dealer daddy - is all kinds of messed up.

This dude has a son with another woman - this son is currently on trial for 1st degree murder for a drug deal gone bad. I could probably write a book on all the stuff that's gone on since I started dating this person. It's really all pretty unbelievable.

I guess I was bored because I got some really interesting shite for a while


I’m starting to think you deserve these problems if you keep sticking around
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
38359 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:04 pm to
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Maybe she will dump you over this drama and save you from this mess.


Women like OP’s GF don’t operate like that. They make the man’s life a living hell and make them do the dirty work
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42096 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:04 pm to
This is so trashy it can’t be true
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:05 pm to
This may be one of the dumbest pieces of advice I've ever seen.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:22 pm to
Honest question: How many goddamned red flags before you don't seek the counsel of strangers and ghost this chick of your own volition?
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:42 pm to
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Ask the OT - how would you handle this - wedding drama


real easy, you have the setup already

escalate the fight then say you need time off

when they get back go make up if you really want her crazy psyco arse to stay around

you can now skip the wedding and the associated drama of a forced huge expense and week long trip where you will be miserable the whole time

its not rocket science to see you are in a bad relationship if thats how she treats your feelings on this situation
Posted by TigerIron
Member since Feb 2021
3678 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 12:59 pm to
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GF has two kids from a previous relationship.

Baby daddy is a degenerate drug dealer (who has spent time in prison for such).

I really don't care for the eldest child - she ran away last year and that resulted in a long and expensive custody battle with lots of drama.

This kid is a mean little shite and has a mouth that makes you want to wash it out with soap (not my kid - so can't do anything but try to avoid interacting with the kid).

my gf looking at me like I'm supposed to be buying meals and entrance fees to Disney and Universal and shite like that

I dated one other woman with kids from another relationship and we took a vacation with her kids and it was pretty much zero fun and all expense for me. It was also the end of our relationship.





P.S. These women with kids you are dating you are using you as a meal ticket after getting knocked up by thugs/ chads. Even if you swallow your pride and stay with them, they are going to be unable to suppress their hunger for "bad boy" dick forever. Whatever you do don't marry one of them.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
40032 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 1:02 pm to
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I dated one other woman with kids from another relationship and we took a vacation with her kids and it was pretty much zero fun and all expense for me. It was also the end of our relationship.


You have a type.
Posted by RebelWithACause
Jackson
Member since Nov 2010
1307 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 1:30 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/23/22 at 1:31 pm
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
21192 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 1:32 pm to
Run now
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
21421 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 1:35 pm to
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The GF's bro is getting married out in CA.

A little background. GF has two kids from a previous relationship. Baby daddy is a degenerate drug dealer (who has spent time in prison for such).


I had no idea Supersaint was previously married.
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
6276 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 1:37 pm to
These type of threads make it clear why some of the other threads exist.
Posted by jflsufan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Mar 2013
4756 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 1:48 pm to
She wants you to stay so you can PAY.
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
22028 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 1:50 pm to
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PIIHB


PIIHBOSM

OSM = on Space Mountain
Posted by DCtiger1
Member since Jul 2009
10258 posts
Posted on 6/23/22 at 2:03 pm to
you shouldn't be with her. sounds like you don't like kids and you shouldn't be with someone who has two grown ones.
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