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As a man it can be really hard to admit without looking weak
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:05 am
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:05 am
This girl I’ve been dating the past year has frickin broken me down. She’s had a history of OCD/Germaphobia/Anxiety I was unaware of until a few months into relationship.
The verbal, emotional abuse this chick put me through while I was trying to stick by her and help her through it has turned me into a shell of my former self. Threatening suicide all the time. I like to think I’m a mentally strong dude but I underestimated the mind frick that would follow.
I left her the other day, and now she’s telling me “I hope you feel good when I kill myself”
Anybody ever experienced this? Advice?
The verbal, emotional abuse this chick put me through while I was trying to stick by her and help her through it has turned me into a shell of my former self. Threatening suicide all the time. I like to think I’m a mentally strong dude but I underestimated the mind frick that would follow.
I left her the other day, and now she’s telling me “I hope you feel good when I kill myself”
Anybody ever experienced this? Advice?
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Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:05 am to Mkay 84
Just tell her to do it already.
She's craving attention. She won't do it. Just call her bluff, and tell her to frick right off.
She's craving attention. She won't do it. Just call her bluff, and tell her to frick right off.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:07 am to Mkay 84
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I left her the other day, and now she’s telling me “I hope you feel good when I kill myself”
Absolute worst case scenario, she does it and is no longer your headache.
Doesn’t not seem like such a bad situation imo
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:07 am to TH03
Why would you give the girl more than 3 seconds of your time? Move on
This post was edited on 9/21/19 at 12:13 am
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:07 am to Mkay 84
If she wants to get help for her issues, tell her you’ll help her help herself.
Otherwise be honest with her and tell her you ain’t in for an unhealthy relationship.
If you leave her, don’t ever look or go back.
Otherwise be honest with her and tell her you ain’t in for an unhealthy relationship.
If you leave her, don’t ever look or go back.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:13 am to Mkay 84
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I left her the other day
Then that’s it. Direct her to a good counselor if you feel the need.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:18 am to soccerfüt
Yea you’re right. I’ve literally been her caregiver for 12 months, she got to a point where she couldn’t even function.
I had help her just go about her day. It was exhausting. Boyfriend turned therapist.
I have mad respect for caregivers. You literally have to live the disease yourself in order to properly help them.
Her family put this responsibility on me. They’ve been attacking me ever since I left.
I had help her just go about her day. It was exhausting. Boyfriend turned therapist.
I have mad respect for caregivers. You literally have to live the disease yourself in order to properly help them.
Her family put this responsibility on me. They’ve been attacking me ever since I left.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:19 am to Mkay 84
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Her family put this responsibility on me. They’ve been attacking me ever since I left.
yeah I'd be out
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:25 am to Mkay 84
I bet the sex was great though
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:26 am to Mkay 84
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Anybody ever experienced this?
People can only cry wolf for so long before it loses it’s meaning.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:26 am to Mkay 84
you need to move on, man
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:27 am to Mkay 84
Tell her to pound sand.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:31 am to Mkay 84
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Anybody ever experienced this? Advice?
Yeah, she'll live.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:31 am to Mkay 84
I bet the make up sex will be incredible
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:34 am to Mkay 84
Walk away. Sideways for attention, vertical for results. 
Being real, I was depressed for a number of years and suicide crossed my mind. But only in a “does anyone care” kind of way. If you have to announce it, you likely aren’t serious about it.
Being real, I was depressed for a number of years and suicide crossed my mind. But only in a “does anyone care” kind of way. If you have to announce it, you likely aren’t serious about it.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:37 am to Mkay 84
The first time it’s terrifying.
But after it happens enough you realize they are just using it as a threat.
As I’ve told women before, don’t put a gun to my head if you aren’t going to pull the trigger, because i’m Not going to be manipulated by bullshite threats.
Don’t reward bad behaviour
But after it happens enough you realize they are just using it as a threat.
As I’ve told women before, don’t put a gun to my head if you aren’t going to pull the trigger, because i’m Not going to be manipulated by bullshite threats.
Don’t reward bad behaviour
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:40 am to Mkay 84
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I left her the other day, and now she’s telling me “I hope you feel good when I kill myself”
Anybody ever experienced this? Advice?
Heard the same story but back when i was like 15. I am not discounting your experience, but this is adolescent level maturity.
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She’s had a history of OCD/Germaphobia/Anxiety I was unaware of until a few months into relationship. The verbal, emotional abuse this chick put me through while I was trying to stick by her and help her through it has turned me into a shell of my former self. Threatening suicide all the time. I like to think I’m a mentally strong dude but I underestimated the mind frick that would follow.
OCD/germaphobia/anxiety =/= suicidal ideations. Something else is going on. Either way it has nothing to do with you, but it is getting taken out on you. The sooner you get this person out of your life, the better off you will be. Get out, but if you are super concerned get a 3rd party involved, but either way get out. If you missed anything, get away.
TLDR; run.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:43 am to Mkay 84
Leave
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:57 am to Mkay 84
Post her pic dude
Posted on 9/21/19 at 12:59 am to lsucoonass
I had a girlfriend once that kept me on a leash for awhile with her threats of suicide when I tried to break up with her.I finally left,she didn’t do it.Don’t let her manipulate you.If she does by some chance off herself ,it’s not your fault.She needs professional help-medications.
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