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re: Anyone else give up on dating?
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:18 pm to CatsGoneWild
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:18 pm to CatsGoneWild
Been divorced for 4 years… a few 7-11 month relationships and lots of dates in between.. doing the math on that roughly tells me you may want to just have some fun for a while
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:20 pm to CatsGoneWild
It ain't any better for guys in their 20s man, this generation of women have gotten accustom to the wrong type of things and it's eaten away at any sort of traditionalism in values, principals, and morals unfortunately. Best advice? Ask the Lord to bring her into your life, continue to pray about it and in the meantime, continue to work on yourself and be the best person you can be
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:27 pm to TheGeauxt9
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Ask the Lord to bring her into your life, continue to pray about it and in the meantime



This won’t help at all. You have to actually go where the women are. Sitting at home and praying all day will result in zero women.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:30 pm to CatsGoneWild
Been divorced a long time and stopped the dating scene. God will have to drop someone in my lap. lol
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:31 pm to LSUAngelHere1
quote:several lonely old men itt that would love you to drop your lap into theirs fwiw
God will have to drop someone in my lap. lol
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:33 pm to ronricks
That's not what I meant baw
, I also meant fishin in the right holes too, but you won't get anywhere sittin all day. Asking the Lord to send you the "right" one

Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:33 pm to CatsGoneWild
Hugging best friend and wife of many years tighter tonight. Sorry to hear this scenario for you.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:34 pm to TheWalrus
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I thought once I was making good money and established dating would be easier, not harder. I’m 35 and never married so I am still hopeful I can find someone in her late 20s early 30s but it just isn’t happening.
Damn, bro. The OT gotta get you fixed up with someone.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:34 pm to TheGeauxt9
quote:butt stuff?
fishin in the right holes
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:36 pm to SuperSaint
Depends on the type of guy you are 

Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:41 pm to CatsGoneWild
I've mentioned this before on other dating threads: find an immigrant (legal) or 1 generation removed (parents immigrants). American woman are pretty shitty for the most part. At least the single ones are. By the time they're mid-30s to 40s all the good ones are taken.
Everyone has baggage but in my experience American women with children have by far more baggage than anyone else. Trust issues, substance abuse, kid issues, baby daddy drama, mental instability, sense of entitlement, etc. A lot of these issues are brought about because they were raised spoiled rotten and often times they are heavily medicated.
Most immigrant women do not have these issues. They have traditional family values. They respect and appreciate a good man. And if you treat them right they will treat you even better.
Everyone has baggage but in my experience American women with children have by far more baggage than anyone else. Trust issues, substance abuse, kid issues, baby daddy drama, mental instability, sense of entitlement, etc. A lot of these issues are brought about because they were raised spoiled rotten and often times they are heavily medicated.
Most immigrant women do not have these issues. They have traditional family values. They respect and appreciate a good man. And if you treat them right they will treat you even better.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:41 pm to TheWalrus
42 and never married but foreign is the way to go. I had a great thing going with a cuban where I out kicked my coverage big time. Life dictated it had to end though. Pluggrd into the spanish community and female competition kicked in. Easy to start dating left and right.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:45 pm to CatsGoneWild
Nvm
This post was edited on 3/17/25 at 8:18 pm
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:46 pm to TheGeauxt9
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Asking the Lord to send you the "right" one
Won’t help at all.
You have to go where women are to meet them. That means the gym, coffee shop, park, dog parks, shopping malls, bars, restaurants, festivals etc.
I haven’t said one single prayer about women and have zero problems getting dates or having sex. I simply go where women are and ask them out. Sometimes I get rejected sometimes they accept. It’s that simple.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:46 pm to Cregg
Probably is horse shite but it worked for me
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:50 pm to MRTigerFan
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find an immigrant
Baw at the gym found him a Latina and he told me she cooks, cleans, doesn’t complain, is grateful for what they have and basically will cater to his every single need. I’m kinda jealous honestly. They are out there just have to find them.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:54 pm to CatsGoneWild
No arse at all? Not sure I could give that up.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:57 pm to MRTigerFan
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I've mentioned this before on other dating threads: find an immigrant (legal) or 1 generation removed (parents immigrants).
You think they won't eventually become Westernized too?

Posted on 3/15/25 at 7:00 pm to ronricks
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she cooks, cleans, doesn’t complain, is grateful for what they have and basically will cater to his every single need.
Pretty much my experience so far. She's from South America and we've been dating for 7 months. She's beautiful too. Also has a good career and makes decent money. She does complain a little but mostly because she wants to spend more time with me.
Posted on 3/15/25 at 7:04 pm to shutterspeed
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You think they won't eventually become Westernized too?
Well, mine is 40 and she's been in USA since she was 8 so I think I'm in the clear. Don't get me wrong, she is Americanized but not in a bad way. Like I said there's very little baggage and drama with her.
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