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re: Anyone else give up on dating?

Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:18 pm to
Posted by Hotgin
Kazakhstan
Member since Jan 2014
1447 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:18 pm to
Been divorced for 4 years… a few 7-11 month relationships and lots of dates in between.. doing the math on that roughly tells me you may want to just have some fun for a while
Posted by TheGeauxt9
South Louisiana
Member since May 2021
161 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:20 pm to
It ain't any better for guys in their 20s man, this generation of women have gotten accustom to the wrong type of things and it's eaten away at any sort of traditionalism in values, principals, and morals unfortunately. Best advice? Ask the Lord to bring her into your life, continue to pray about it and in the meantime, continue to work on yourself and be the best person you can be
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9923 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:27 pm to
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Ask the Lord to bring her into your life, continue to pray about it and in the meantime




This won’t help at all. You have to actually go where the women are. Sitting at home and praying all day will result in zero women.
Posted by LSUAngelHere1
Watson
Member since Jan 2018
9655 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:30 pm to
Been divorced a long time and stopped the dating scene. God will have to drop someone in my lap. lol
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
145052 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:31 pm to
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God will have to drop someone in my lap. lol
several lonely old men itt that would love you to drop your lap into theirs fwiw
Posted by TheGeauxt9
South Louisiana
Member since May 2021
161 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:33 pm to
That's not what I meant baw , I also meant fishin in the right holes too, but you won't get anywhere sittin all day. Asking the Lord to send you the "right" one
Posted by Artificial Ignorance
Member since Feb 2025
522 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:33 pm to
Hugging best friend and wife of many years tighter tonight. Sorry to hear this scenario for you.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
68381 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:34 pm to
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I thought once I was making good money and established dating would be easier, not harder. I’m 35 and never married so I am still hopeful I can find someone in her late 20s early 30s but it just isn’t happening.


Damn, bro. The OT gotta get you fixed up with someone.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
145052 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:34 pm to
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fishin in the right holes
butt stuff?
Posted by TheGeauxt9
South Louisiana
Member since May 2021
161 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:36 pm to
Depends on the type of guy you are
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
5413 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:41 pm to
I've mentioned this before on other dating threads: find an immigrant (legal) or 1 generation removed (parents immigrants). American woman are pretty shitty for the most part. At least the single ones are. By the time they're mid-30s to 40s all the good ones are taken.
Everyone has baggage but in my experience American women with children have by far more baggage than anyone else. Trust issues, substance abuse, kid issues, baby daddy drama, mental instability, sense of entitlement, etc. A lot of these issues are brought about because they were raised spoiled rotten and often times they are heavily medicated.
Most immigrant women do not have these issues. They have traditional family values. They respect and appreciate a good man. And if you treat them right they will treat you even better.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36400 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:41 pm to
42 and never married but foreign is the way to go. I had a great thing going with a cuban where I out kicked my coverage big time. Life dictated it had to end though. Pluggrd into the spanish community and female competition kicked in. Easy to start dating left and right.
Posted by WAR TIGER
Death Valley
Member since Oct 2005
4236 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:45 pm to
Nvm
This post was edited on 3/17/25 at 8:18 pm
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9923 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:46 pm to
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Asking the Lord to send you the "right" one


Won’t help at all.

You have to go where women are to meet them. That means the gym, coffee shop, park, dog parks, shopping malls, bars, restaurants, festivals etc.

I haven’t said one single prayer about women and have zero problems getting dates or having sex. I simply go where women are and ask them out. Sometimes I get rejected sometimes they accept. It’s that simple.
Posted by WillFerrellisking
Member since Jun 2019
2016 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:46 pm to
Probably is horse shite but it worked for me
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9923 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:50 pm to
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find an immigrant


Baw at the gym found him a Latina and he told me she cooks, cleans, doesn’t complain, is grateful for what they have and basically will cater to his every single need. I’m kinda jealous honestly. They are out there just have to find them.
Posted by WeagleEagle
Folsom Prison
Member since Sep 2011
2381 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:54 pm to
No arse at all? Not sure I could give that up.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
68381 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 6:57 pm to
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I've mentioned this before on other dating threads: find an immigrant (legal) or 1 generation removed (parents immigrants).


You think they won't eventually become Westernized too?
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
5413 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 7:00 pm to
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she cooks, cleans, doesn’t complain, is grateful for what they have and basically will cater to his every single need.

Pretty much my experience so far. She's from South America and we've been dating for 7 months. She's beautiful too. Also has a good career and makes decent money. She does complain a little but mostly because she wants to spend more time with me.
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
5413 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 7:04 pm to
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You think they won't eventually become Westernized too?

Well, mine is 40 and she's been in USA since she was 8 so I think I'm in the clear. Don't get me wrong, she is Americanized but not in a bad way. Like I said there's very little baggage and drama with her.
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