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Posted on 12/19/15 at 9:43 am to BRgetthenet
I feel like this year has been harder than past years after my brother passed (6 years as of December 1st). I think it's maybe because I haven't allowed myself to deal with all of the shite, was incredibly numb to things in previous years, and we haven't had as much "other" drama to deal with (my cousin is an addict and the other is becoming a Grade A frickup in her own right).
While I haven't myself, I can certainly understand why people want to check the frick out this time of year. And it makes it hard to be really happy about the holidays when some of my family likes to attention whore based on my brother's death (how it's SOOOOOO hard for them to cope, when he didn't even like them or really spend time with them).
While I haven't myself, I can certainly understand why people want to check the frick out this time of year. And it makes it hard to be really happy about the holidays when some of my family likes to attention whore based on my brother's death (how it's SOOOOOO hard for them to cope, when he didn't even like them or really spend time with them).
This post was edited on 12/19/15 at 9:45 am
Posted on 12/19/15 at 9:46 am to BluegrassBelle
That's never been an option for me. But I know what you're saying.
The gatherings this time of year don't help. Kind of rubs salt in the wound.
The gatherings this time of year don't help. Kind of rubs salt in the wound.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 9:46 am to N2cars
It can be rough for all of us at certain times in our lives. Heres hoping you all have a blessed holiday and for those struggling that they find some Christmas peace.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 9:52 am to BRgetthenet
I'm getting ready to head out to the third family funeral since the day before Thanksgiving. Pretty unreal. Everyone is dropping like flies. On a brighter note, my brother was almost #3, but is home now after several days in ICU, and I'm thankful for that. I guess life (and death) has been too hectic for much emotion. I'm sure it will catch up with me at some point.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 9:54 am to p0845330
Stay strong p0845330. That has to be overwhelming.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 9:55 am to p0845330
Wow man that's horrible. I'm sorry.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 10:05 am to BRgetthenet
Losers do that.
Be a grown up and face life's challenges like a man.
We all experience bad times.
Be a grown up and face life's challenges like a man.
We all experience bad times.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 10:16 am to Makinbacon
That's right bacon. That's about what I expect out of you.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 10:17 am to BRgetthenet
Be happy for what you have, not sad for what you dont.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 10:20 am to BRgetthenet
I think you're missing the point. This is a time for giving thanks and giving to others, not retreating into your ego and wallowing in negativity.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 10:24 am to BRgetthenet
I'm just trying to be truthful instead of telling you what you want to hear.
You'll thank me when you grow up.
You'll thank me when you grow up.
Posted on 12/19/15 at 10:38 am to BRgetthenet
I got laid last night
Posted on 12/19/15 at 10:53 am to BRgetthenet
I used to.I lost my Dad Dec.10th of 1989.I was 28.He was 56.
And Christmas in general reminded me of who wasn't there.Grandparents,etc...
So,yes,it was a very sad time of year for me.I wanted to isolate but couldn't because of Family get togethers.
As I've gotten older,54,I'm at peace with basically everything.
I'm an Elder in my Family now.Christmas is for the kids.It's our job to give them that.
To me Christmas is a celebration of our Family.Those kind of things seem more important to me the older I get.
And Christmas in general reminded me of who wasn't there.Grandparents,etc...
So,yes,it was a very sad time of year for me.I wanted to isolate but couldn't because of Family get togethers.
As I've gotten older,54,I'm at peace with basically everything.
I'm an Elder in my Family now.Christmas is for the kids.It's our job to give them that.
To me Christmas is a celebration of our Family.Those kind of things seem more important to me the older I get.
This post was edited on 12/19/15 at 11:01 am
Posted on 12/19/15 at 11:00 am to BRgetthenet
I absolutely hate Christmas. Year before last I let everyone know that I wouldn't be participating anymore. I sat the one year out but the guilt trips came hard and from everywhere. I now participate in Christmas again and try to make the best of it. Fwiw I absolutely enjoy thanksgiving
Posted on 12/19/15 at 11:12 am to BRgetthenet
Yes. I would think anyone who has lost loved ones will miss them this time of year. Cherish the memories!!
Don't let your internal "Christmas Tree" go dark. Turn on the lights!!! ~~~ May each of you find Peace and Joy!
Don't let your internal "Christmas Tree" go dark. Turn on the lights!!! ~~~ May each of you find Peace and Joy!
Posted on 12/19/15 at 11:14 am to BRgetthenet
damn bro, do you need a hug or something? get over here you big galoot
Posted on 12/19/15 at 11:14 am to S
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