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re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...

Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:52 pm to
Posted by BoddaBoom7
Oxford, AL
Member since Jul 2016
957 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:52 pm to
quote:

quote:
I could send you our long messages



Post these if you want real advice mon ami




Do it. Please. Thx
Posted by OKellsBells
USA
Member since Dec 2016
5264 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:52 pm to
You had great email conversations but got dumped for someone who exists in her real life. Don't take it so personally.


This is the wrong place to cry. Good luck.
Posted by AnarchySupporter
Member since Dec 2016
383 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:52 pm to
Bmath do you want me to send you a copy of our messages? We are talking paragraphs here, and not because I was writing that much, she was. One message it took me 5 paragraphs to answer her questions and various comments. And the conversation was very smooth flowing, there was never any question of what to talk about next.

She was even into the same sci-fi series I enjoy, and that's something you hardly ever see with a woman.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49483 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:53 pm to
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Have you considered joining a fascist organization?


I think I accidentally did once, long story short was not sober, ended up in the back woods nearest large city being lake charles, at a run down middle of the woods has station, donated money to a old white man's cause, ended up with a free confederate flag license plate.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:53 pm to
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talk to GoldenNugget


I'm pretty sure this is GN's alter.
Posted by AnarchySupporter
Member since Dec 2016
383 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:53 pm to
OKellsBells I guess what gets me is that it wasn't like we were never going to meet. We had actually agreed to meet up tomorrow! I just got this message 2 hours ago. This is still very raw for me.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42105 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:54 pm to
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I feel so rejected, I feel like all it does is give me pain. 


Bc some bitch you emailed with wants to pursue somebody she meet in person?

It's all sales 200 cold calls toake your month
This post was edited on 4/1/17 at 9:56 pm
Posted by Sody Cracker
Distemper Ward
Member since May 2016
3409 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:55 pm to
Your expectations are too high and you try too hard. Having long conversations via email diminishes her interest because she knows everything about you too early in the relationship - the curiosity factor is eliminated. When a woman agrees to a date, shut up until date night.

Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
46141 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:55 pm to
You have to offer something to women. You reek of insecurity and desparation. You hate women because of your lack of success with them? Do you totally lack empathy? Women have needs and desires too and are looking for them to be filled. They have enough trouble navigating through creepers. Your negative attitude is downright embarrassing. Work harder to make yourself desirable and quit blaming others.
Posted by SpqrTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2004
9633 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:55 pm to
If you give up, you'll be a case study in "one-itis." That is, making the mistake that a woman who is not into you is "the one," and there can be no other.

I get that you're disappointed. But this is reason enough to not give up. You're really going to let some gal break you like that? No fricking way.

The sooner you realize that there is no "one," the better. The truth is that there is not just "one," rather, there are many. There are many women that you could get along with and lead a happy life. There's not just one.

So go find some of them. Pouting over it will not help you. And that's what this is. Pick your chin up and start again, tomorrow.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
33006 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:55 pm to
Dude, are you like really unattractive or something?

Describe your height/weight/hair color and eyes. Do you consider yourself "ugly".

That's not really a hindrance to getting laid as a male. Sense of humor and attitude/confidence are more important.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:56 pm to
Wow. I honestly wanted to come into this thread and be sarcastic. But after actually reading the OP, all I can say is chin up buddy.
Posted by AnarchySupporter
Member since Dec 2016
383 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:56 pm to
I would be open to posting these messages but if you think my first message was too long you'll never read these messages. Some of these are short story length.
Posted by saintsfan22
baton rouge
Member since May 2006
78841 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:56 pm to
quote:

She was even into the same sci-fi series I enjoy, and that's something you hardly ever see with a woman.


Catfish
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68650 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:57 pm to
Dear diary....
Posted by BoddaBoom7
Oxford, AL
Member since Jul 2016
957 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:58 pm to
quote:

I would be open to posting these messages

Again. .....please do
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
50182 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:58 pm to
Start with the sci-fi stuff to get us a baseline.

My favorite is Hyperion Cantos :)
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34910 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:59 pm to
The whole idea of building a new relationship on the internet for someone like you is a horrible decision right off the bat.. no offense, but with your history you really need to work on your self confidence. The whole 'really long email conversations' just scream insecurity to me and I believe that is going to only make your situation worse

Did not mean to come off as a dick if I did, trying to offer friendly advice
Posted by PhifeDogg
Member since Mar 2006
6263 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:59 pm to
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would be open to posting these messages but if you think my first message was too long you'll never read these messages.


They. Will. Be.Read.
Posted by DrunkerThanThou
Unfortunately Mississippi
Member since Feb 2013
2846 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 9:59 pm to
If not trolling. You should watch the School of Life videos on youtube to start. Big problem is you seem to be setting yourself up for failure from the getgo. The minute you realize every woman (every person for that matter) is living a fricked up life in their own way and just trying to make their lot just a little bit better in any way they can, you'll learn to drop the pretenses and develop a healthy relationship. The "confidence" schtick that everyone harps on isn't just how you present yourself, its a comfort in your own skin that people around you can pick up on. Once you have that its a lot more likely some chick will notice and say to her self, "I want a piece of that action". - This applies to mature women, not sloots.
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