re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...

This is simple, you fricking reek of desperation and nothing on earth will make a woman run faster.

They are the simplest creatures on earth, if no one else wants you they don't either, they all want what they can't have, so much so it will lead to self destructive behavior.

Find something that makes you feel confident in yourself and stay in that bubble of people.

Self confidence is far more important than looks.

And throw your computer away, climb the stairs from mom's basement, and go meet real people.

because i know someone is going to ask so i will just tell the story. it was half arse self defense.

my grand mother worked at a gas station, for you baws in arkansas, on 12th street not far from central high. lol, really i can end the story there that tells you all you need to know you probably even know the gas station i'm talking about lol. she lived about, they lived about 2 blocks from the gas station. so my grand father is coming in and seeing my grandmother and the place was just so happening to get robbed. so my granddad goes home and gets his gun and comes back and kills the two dudes while they are trying to leave.


they said it was pre meditated because he went home and got the gun, this was the 80s, he was a violent offender already and it was a poor black family against two white men so there was a racial element to it. he had life WO but it got reduced to 25 years, he did about 20, got out when i was what...30, actually not doing half bad considering he's not violent anymore at least


edit: i just counted he did the entire 25. anyway my point being frick i forgot

oh yeah. my mom was 18 when she met my dad. 19 when she had me. she decided to marry my father and got a whiff of my dad's family and how bat shite crazy they can be (not really just my grandfather and my uncle) and the second my dad started acting out she left. she didn't want me raised around that shite and that was the right call. my dad is not what you would call violent, bjut he does have a temper and he will hit a woman. he ain't his dad's level of violent at least. but still it was the right call. There is never a situation where raising a kid in that type of environment just because the dad is there is better than raising a kid alone.


and how the frick we get on kids this OP ain't got kids. he has to frick to get kids he's not fricking. we years away from kid talk

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dad used to literally take me with him to his mistresses house and i used to have to listen to them frick while i was playing nintendo in the living room when i was in elementary school and school was out

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I don't care if your parents wanted each other dead, that's just bad parenting right there.

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don't care if your parents wanted each other dead, that's just bad parenting right there.

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Bad shite happens to most people growing up. At 33(OP) You have to take charge of your own life. You only have yourself to blame from this point on.

Toughen up, buttercup.

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Ask her what you are doing wrong or what you can be doing better.. Or NOT doing.

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It better be a high dollar whore if at all. Bitches sense weakness and she will take him to the cleaners just like some hoe he wants to date.

Dude needs a few frick em and forget em bitches. They are there to get fricked, not give advice.

but he doesn't have enough experience to not try to save the frick em and forget em hoe lol. therein lies the rub. she's going to be hot, she's going to have a tad bit of class to her and he's going to fall head over heels in love with someone who literally makes a living "developing a deep connection" with someone and she's going to take him to the cleaners because that's her fricking job.


hoes are for bachelor parties, hoes are what you use when you have been married to someone you love forever but she's not having sex with you anymore but you don't want to leave. you don't go to a hoe when you are thirsty and don't know what water tastes like.

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he didn't leave a 6-7 year old at home by himself all day long

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I suppose there's something to be said for that.

Surely there was an aunt or a grandmother, or just a friend he could have duped you with during the booty calls.

Is it catfish season? No one likes being Teo'd..

I'll admit, I had a roommate, who I hate bc he ducked out on $400 worth of bills that I paid, who hooked up with a girl he knew had a bf. Then he was telling us this was the girl he wanted to marry, while she still had a bf. Why the hell would you blame anyone other than yourself for trusting someone you knew was a cheater?

If you know who they are, accept it. Don't take their endearing qualities that make you interested in them and turn them into redeeming qualities that outweigh minor imperfections.