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re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...

Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:46 am to
Posted by TheWalrus
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Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:46 am to
I don't know if you have kids or are planning on it vengeance, but at some point having the attitude that a woman is a replaceable asset is a fricking terrible one. That's why so many kids grow up without fathers. It's also why men should be more discretionary about who they are knocking up.
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
115613 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:46 am to
Hey man, can you give me some tips on how to properly peacock?


Can't get any women to notice me when I go downtown and I want to learn from a master PUA like you

Thx bro
Posted by CptBengal
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Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:47 am to
quote:

I don't know if you have kids or are planning on it vengeance, but at some point having the attitude that a woman is a replaceable asset is a fricking terrible one. That's why so many kids grow up without fathers. It's also why men should be more discretionary about who they are knocking up.




I agree with you on some level. But they are replaceable....as long as you dont want or have kids.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26227 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:47 am to
I am not a PUA

PUAs are retarded
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26227 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:49 am to
quote:

I agree with you on some level. But they are replaceable....as long as you dont want or have kids.


It's why vetting women is so important

People were all over my arse in the deal breaker thread yesterday because I have so many red flags I watch for in woman

Sorry but if I am going to marry a woman and/or have kids with her and put 50% of my wealth on the line she has to meet my standards and be absent of red flags that ruin marriages/relationships
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64155 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:50 am to
quote:

I started doing online dating again (about 2 months ago) and so far have had 2 first dates. Both were good but no real connection.


Huh? Slow down. You sound incredibly impatient, or they're impatient. Is one date really enough to know about that person?


quote:

She had a good time, the guy asked her out for a second date, she accepted and didn't want to pull me along since she doesn't believe in going on dates with multiple guys at once.


Who has a date with multiple guys at once that isn't apart of some swingers group? Does this even need to be said? Were you lobbying to go on some sort of weird group date?


Im sorry your luck is bad, but you seem really quickly disappointed. Try a little perseverance and temper your expectations on first dates.
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 12:51 am
Posted by CptBengal
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Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:52 am to
quote:

Sorry but if I am going to marry a woman and/or have kids with her and put 50% of my wealth on the line she has to meet my standards and be absent of red flags that ruin marriages/relationships


you and I agree disagree on much.. but on MR we are on the same track.

You want me to enter into a contract that can royally frick me? You better be the next coming of Mary.
Posted by goldennugget
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Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:54 am to
Marriage is a one sided contract these days. Heavily tipped scales toward the woman. Almost nothing in it for the man

So if I am going to enter such a one sided contract it better be for a woman who is worth it

If you want to marry some skank with tattoos and a promiscuous past and had no father present in her life growing up be my guest. Just don't whine to me when the marriage fails.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84359 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:55 am to
quote:

Expectations. Learn to have 0 when it comes to the opposite sex, especially when playing the "game". You'll be better off for it. You'll lose a lot more than you win, but you only gotta win once. keep ya head up bruh


Honestly I'm surprised this got zero downvotes. It's almost as depressing as the OP.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 12:58 am to
quote:

I don't know if you have kids or are planning on it vengeance, but at some point having the attitude that a woman is a replaceable asset is a fricking terrible one. That's why so many kids grow up without fathers. It's also why men should be more discretionary about who they are knocking up.


my fiancee is literally about to have my first son any day now. she's due on the 23rd


even with that said, kids aren't reason enough to stick around a woman that is cheating on you or direspecting you. i was raised by 2 parents who hates each ohthers guts. i watched my dad cheat on my mom, abuse my mom, i watched my mom cry herself to sleep more times than i can count. The best thing to ever happen to them was for them to leave each other and in turn it was the best thing that could have happened to me because i did not spend my entire childhood watching and learning from an abusive loveless relationship.

i'm lucky in the sense my mom makes, quite a bit more actually than my father does so my mom didn't have to stick around for the money and i would never put my child in a position to where he's starving or i'm holding money over their head that's not right it's my seed.

Lo and behold my parents actually half arse got along once they got a divorce and were able to go their separate ways.


when you stay in an abusive loveless marriage all you are tel/ling your kid is that hey, this is the best we deserve. we can't go anywhere because this is what we deserve, you deserve to be abused, you deserve to have to witness this. really what you are doing is being selfish and using your kids as crutch
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:01 am to
Damn son,

I told you over on the poliboard months ago that you needed to buy some pussy because a normal ho would frick you up.

Go buy some pussy that you can treat like shite for a night. Otherwise you are going to shoot up a movie theater.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:04 am to
no, god no lol he ain't ready for real life hoes lol. a true hoe will put it on him and in 2 months he will be financing her house while she's still hoeing. the thing about hoes is that they don't leave lol. hoes are god awful slump busters either they are skanks that are golddiggers and will frick your life up or they are bad as hell and they put it on you and you become obsesses and there is no in between. lol hoes aint' got no ethics or no moral code they hoes lol they go see him coming a mile away and frick his life up to hell

you just need to go find you a good old fashion 220 pound slump buster
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 1:05 am
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
115613 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:04 am to
quote:

. i watched my dad cheat on my mom,


Well that's weird. He didn't tell you to leave the room?
Posted by skinny domino
sebr
Member since Feb 2007
14501 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:09 am to
quote:

talk to GoldenNugget
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20049 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:09 am to
how old are you?
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84359 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:09 am to
I may be alone in this but I think vengeance just makes shite up.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20049 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:14 am to
quote:

I'm 33


so you're 33 and never been intimate with a woman? is this by choice? religious or something?
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:17 am to
quote:

hoes are god awful slump busters


He doesn't need a "slump buster" his whole life is a slump.

quote:

in 2 months he will be financing her house while she's still hoeing


quote:

good old fashion 220 pound slump buster


So you want him to finance a fatty?

Dude needs a paid to leave whore.

He needs to phone a friend that can sit in the living room while he gets his nut and can make sure this bitch leaves.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:19 am to
quote:

Well that's weird. He didn't tell you to leave the room?
you're being factious but my dad used to literally take me with him to his mistresses house and i used to have to listen to them frick while i was playing nintendo in the living room when i was in elementary school and school was out

then he would tell me not to tell my mom so if i didn't tell my mom i was an a-hole to my mom and if i did tell my mom i was a little bitch

my point simply being sticking it out "for the kids" when there is no love, there is abuse, there is disrpect or violence, is never EVER good for the kid. I always told myself I wanted a family and I will tryh my damdest to stick make it work, i want nothing more than the whole house and the picket fense with the misses i'm head over heels in love with my fiancee, but if she ever cheats she's got to go because there is no going back. she should have thought of that before she cheated.


edit: nevermind frick it i'm tiredc
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 1:25 am
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 1:24 am to
quote:

you're being factious but my dad used to literally take me with him to his mistresses house and i used to have to listen to them frick while i was playing nintendo in the living room when i was in elementary school and school was out


That isn't shite, kid.

When your dad puts a pistol to a guy's head at the hamburger joint when you are 5 and asks you if he lives or dies because he flipped you a bird you can get back to me.
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