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re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:51 pm to Mr. Hangover
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:51 pm to Mr. Hangover
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dated a girl that went to chapelle with that line ?
"Do I know you?"
It was great practice convo
I didn't go to a party and I would reply me either
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Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:51 pm to lsunurse
I have never used a dating service and am likely to be forever alone, but threads like this make me feel so much better about myself
This post was edited on 4/1/17 at 10:53 pm
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:52 pm to thelawnwranglers
So basically according to you all you think I'm a hopeless cause right? I actually do agree that I was worried about too much information taking the mystery out of it and the excitement of a first date. But literally she kept writing paragraphs with all these questions and I did not want to be rude.
And look, I get it, I know I shouldn't let one woman do this to me. It's not so much that, I think it's just all my dating failures that have piled up that make me feel like giving up.
And look, I get it, I know I shouldn't let one woman do this to me. It's not so much that, I think it's just all my dating failures that have piled up that make me feel like giving up.
This post was edited on 4/1/17 at 10:53 pm
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:53 pm to AnarchySupporter
quote:
Are you implying that you actually don't think she even had a date last night? That she really was not interested at all and just needed a way to get out of it without being straight forward?
Doesn't matter why - frick that bitch
Should have said who said it was a date
Brush her back
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:53 pm to AnarchySupporter
Have you ever gone to professional counseling?
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:53 pm to AnarchySupporter
No I bet she had a date and felt a stronger connection with him.
If I was her and I had that happen...but I also had met a guy online that I was excited about meeting....I'm still gonna meet with the online guy because I would be curious about him as well. Then after meeting him I could decide which of the two I wanted to pursue more, and gently let the other guy down.
But if it was a guy I was not all that excited about...but he was the only one that showed some potential at the time...then yeah...I would likely blow off that guy and focus all my time on the hot guy my friend set me up with.
If I was her and I had that happen...but I also had met a guy online that I was excited about meeting....I'm still gonna meet with the online guy because I would be curious about him as well. Then after meeting him I could decide which of the two I wanted to pursue more, and gently let the other guy down.
But if it was a guy I was not all that excited about...but he was the only one that showed some potential at the time...then yeah...I would likely blow off that guy and focus all my time on the hot guy my friend set me up with.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:54 pm to AnarchySupporter
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I get her e-mail.
Son, first of all that tells you something about her character. A phone call would have been better. Then again, had you two even been talking by phone? You have to talk with each other to have a chance of sealing a deal for getting a date.
Step back, take stock of yourself. Not in terms of how hopeless you are, but in terms of what you do have going for you. Work on emphasizing those strengths. Honestly, I have had little luck with on-line dates. People can hide too easily. My best luck is in meeting folks in person. Get out from behind that computer or that phone and start circulating in person. Girls are a lot like bass fishing. A lot of them are going to spit the bait back at you and go their way. They will do that until the day comes that they hit the wall and they aren't the goddess they have been thinking they were. Take your time, and don't fall in love with the first thing you sleep with. The only way you are going to bag any quails is to get out the field and go hunting.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:54 pm to AnarchySupporter
First of all,
and maybe read this book
and maybe read this book
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:54 pm to AnarchySupporter
That is a gigantic wall of self pity bullshite. Stop dating for a while, work out, get a therapist, and start building self esteem. Women can smell desperation a mile away, and if you don't love yourself on what fricking planet do you think someone could love you.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:55 pm to Evil Little Thing
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Have you ever gone to professional counseling?
Not for dating but yes I have. I honestly was convinced that I was depressed after a job switch last year. The therapist said I do not have any of the main things they look for in terms of depression.
She did think I suffered from anxiety though and not fully living my life and she's helped me with that. Heck she's the one who made me make a list of 100 things that are important to me or that I want to do. That's why I went kayaking, that was one of the things on the list and I do have to say I enjoyed it, I'd forgotten how much being on the water relaxes me.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:56 pm to damnedoldtigah
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the day comes that they hit the wall and they aren't the goddess they have been thinking they were
Unrelated to his post, but god damn, this wall is real.
Maybe you need to go for older women.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:57 pm to Jcorye1
I'm sorry but how were my e-mails a gigantic wall of self pity? How did you deduct that from my messages?
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:57 pm to AnarchySupporter
you are luckier than what you think
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:57 pm to Jcorye1
quote:BINGO
if you don't love yourself on what fricking planet do you think someone could love you.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:58 pm to AnarchySupporter
man i went from jacking off 10 times a day weiging 260 pounds and crying myself to sleep thinking i would never get laid again in my life to having girls slip me their numbers on the DL when i was fricking their friends and they would both stop by and visit\, so if you are looking for a sholder to cry on this ain't the one lol.
The problem is, men want a short term solution to a long term problem. You can't solve your dating problems by going on online and creating a new account you solve your dating problems by becoming a better fricking man. i was 260 pounds lol i didn't even want to look in the mirror how the frick am i go expect a woman to want to sleep with me when i can't look at myself? do some interesting shite. Get out the house. put yourself out there. learn how to dress. learn how to play a music instrument. join some clubs. go to barnes and noble and say dammit i'm not leaving here until i lay the mac down to at least one girl i see rather she says no or not.
you will never get laid as long as you are in your comfort zone like that and if you managed to get laid, it will always be on her terms. you don't want symptany pussy. you want i'm fricking solid snake and i'm going to through this tanker level undetected just to suck your dick pussy lol.
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you got to take control of your life bro. i would rather be single than to be with a woman who ran my life or who pitty fricked me.
what are you hobbies? What do you enjoy doing? serious question
The problem is, men want a short term solution to a long term problem. You can't solve your dating problems by going on online and creating a new account you solve your dating problems by becoming a better fricking man. i was 260 pounds lol i didn't even want to look in the mirror how the frick am i go expect a woman to want to sleep with me when i can't look at myself? do some interesting shite. Get out the house. put yourself out there. learn how to dress. learn how to play a music instrument. join some clubs. go to barnes and noble and say dammit i'm not leaving here until i lay the mac down to at least one girl i see rather she says no or not.
you will never get laid as long as you are in your comfort zone like that and if you managed to get laid, it will always be on her terms. you don't want symptany pussy. you want i'm fricking solid snake and i'm going to through this tanker level undetected just to suck your dick pussy lol.
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you got to take control of your life bro. i would rather be single than to be with a woman who ran my life or who pitty fricked me.
what are you hobbies? What do you enjoy doing? serious question
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:58 pm to AnarchySupporter
quote:
So basically according to you all you think I'm a hopeless cause right?
frick no-. Death row inmates get dates. You will be fine
quote:
But literally she kept writing paragraphs with all these questions and I did not want to be rude.
It isn't rude
quote:
think it's just all my dating failures that have piled up
Except for the 1 or 2 you marry - all are failures soon or later.
Keep fishing
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:58 pm to lsucoonass
quote:
you are luckier than what you think
Can you elaborate on this?
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:59 pm to AnarchySupporter
I feel really sorry for you.
There's probably nothing any of us can say in a thoughtful way that can help you, unfortunately. You seem like a sensitive guy. And that is your problem.
I could say things that have meaning to me like:
= it's a numbers game...gotta keep hammering away
= it's just one chick, move on quickly...etc.
However, the basic problem is you are too sensitive. You'll never see it in the way alot of people who are successful can: a fun journey with a positive, happy outcome.
Unless you can transform your approach, emotions, attitude about women, you are doomed to failure.
They are just like us: they wanna laugh and have fun and be loved. It's really not that big a deal.
There's probably nothing any of us can say in a thoughtful way that can help you, unfortunately. You seem like a sensitive guy. And that is your problem.
I could say things that have meaning to me like:
= it's a numbers game...gotta keep hammering away
= it's just one chick, move on quickly...etc.
However, the basic problem is you are too sensitive. You'll never see it in the way alot of people who are successful can: a fun journey with a positive, happy outcome.
Unless you can transform your approach, emotions, attitude about women, you are doomed to failure.
They are just like us: they wanna laugh and have fun and be loved. It's really not that big a deal.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:59 pm to thelawnwranglers
quote:
I honestly love it
it wouldnt be goldennuggets first alter
he had a long term one, "accnodefense" he stopped using in 2015
Posted on 4/1/17 at 11:01 pm to damnedoldtigah
quote:
My best luck is in meeting folks in person. Get out from behind that computer or that phone and start circulating in person. Girls are a lot like bass fishing. A lot of them are going to spit the bait back at you and go their way.
How long do you keep casting before you pick up the anchor?
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