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re: A day in the life of goldennugget

Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:30 pm to
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:30 pm to
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You see a girl you're interested in, you talk to her


Yes

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If y'all hit it off, you call her for a date.


Yes

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If she wants to talk, you talk for as long as you like.


Only in extreme moderation

If you are always doing nothing but talking to her, you are conveying that you literally have no life and have no other options.

1. Women are attracted to men with interesting, fun, exciting lives. If you are always talking to her, and always available, it means your life is not fun, interesting or exciting. So sometimes you have to just ignore her or take hours to respond to her texts if you respond at all just to convey you are a busy man with an exciting life

2. Women are attracted to men whom other women are attracted to (preselection). If you are always available and always talking to her, she will see you have no other options in terms of female prospects.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59245 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:30 pm to
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It's a reason I deleted my social media. Women are more intrigued by mysterious men they don't know much about.


This is dumb, I have my whole Facebook locked down bc I don't really use it. My Instagram is wide open because I control what pics are posted and they are all good/fun pics with plenty of people. It tells her if I have friends that are female and am likely safe
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:31 pm to
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I don't do the how aid your day going chats because I make it understood I'm at work and don't have time for that.


Good. That's what male orbiters and her girlfriends are for.

I have always said. Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you aren't fricking her you are her girlfriend.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:32 pm to
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This is dumb, I have my whole Facebook locked down bc I don't really use it. My Instagram is wide open because I control what pics are posted and they are all good/fun pics with plenty of people. It tells her if I have friends that are female and am likely safe



Social media is fine if you are able to demonstrate your value and your fun life with it. In otherwords use it as social proof.

The thing is most men can't do that, they either don't have the discipline, or they don't have the value to demonstrate.
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
15523 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:32 pm to
they love it if you are in a volly FD, at least thats what i experinced. Didnt think it was true when I started out years ago.
Posted by DBU
Member since Mar 2014
19059 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:33 pm to
Probably closer to depressing and pathetic on the spectrum
Posted by YNWA
Member since Nov 2015
7233 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:33 pm to
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I'll record some footage of my move and drive across America coming up starting Sunday. Should be an interesting few days


I'm guessing we can expect you to try and instigate stuff and then cry on camera when you get your arse kicked....again.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:34 pm to
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I'm guessing we can expect you to try and instigate stuff and then cry on camera when you get your arse kicked....again.



No doubt

I am really going to stir shite up in Idaho and Wyoming
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59245 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:35 pm to
You seem like you super invested in demonstrating value, are you just not that talkative or have any leg up positives in your life? It's not hard to demonstrate value about what you can do for a girl in the future within 10 minutes
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:35 pm to
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It's not exactly what I planned,


What was your original plan and why didn't it work out?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:39 pm to
I'm honestly trying to help you here. You're clearly not a dumb guy. But have you considered therapy? I think that it could do wonders for you. Do that and possibly a week long intensive treatment program if you can afford it.

You're not dumb and I don't think deep down you're deplorable, but you do have opinions that to me resonate that you have deep frustrations towards others.

Get help. Seriously. I'm not being mean at all and trying to extend a hand to help you out. If you don't feel like openly admitting it here, I can help you out at omlandshark@gmail.com. I'm here to help.
This post was edited on 3/7/17 at 10:45 pm
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79990 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:40 pm to
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If you are always doing nothing but talking to her, you are conveying that you literally have no life and have no other options.

I'm not saying always, not the obsessive creepy overbearing guy. But once a day is not an issue.

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1. Women are attracted to men with interesting, fun, exciting lives. If you are always talking to her, and always available, it means your life is not fun, interesting or exciting. So sometimes you have to just ignore her or take hours to respond to her texts if you respond at all just to convey you are a busy man with an exciting life

This is wrong. You have to read the girl. Just being available doesn't convey a stagnant life. Your assumptions simply don't agree with what I or my friends experienced during our single days.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
33819 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:40 pm to
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When 5 different stations want you, you can hold out for the best offer


The Frank Hackett of TD's!

Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59245 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:41 pm to
Brought s first date to the lsu FLORIDA game, knew a group of my friends mom sat over a section and made her walk over with me to introduce her because I know my friends moms would eat her up.
Later went to walkons to see a group of girls I went to HS with that am close with, introduced the date and walked off for 10-15 min. Kowing they would ask about the date which has gone perfect. It's easy bruh

I ask met this girl the previous home game and walked up her friends asking if they wanted some beers, pulling them into our tailgate for the day. You can pull the not interested card in these situations, you jump on them
This post was edited on 3/7/17 at 10:45 pm
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:41 pm to
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You seem like you super invested in demonstrating value, are you just not that talkative or have any leg up positives in your life? It's not hard to demonstrate value about what you can do for a girl in the future within 10 minutes



I can be as talkative as I want to be, and show off as much positive as I want. I used to be a big talker when I was a beta, and always failed. I had to change strategies. Less is more. I follow the 2/3 rule. Only say no more than 2/3 than what she says to you.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
33819 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:41 pm to
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trying to hard


To hard what?
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:42 pm to
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What was your original plan and why didn't it work out?



I wanted to do sports radio. I did it for a couple years. Just no money in it. Didn't want to continue to grind away looking for my break into being a host for a show.
Posted by Rebelgator
Pripyat Bridge
Member since Mar 2010
40186 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:42 pm to
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I mean, unless you are a pro athlete, actor, a professional DJ, professional musician, or have some other kind of rare high status career, what you do for a living is not going to impress a woman. It can only hurt you in her eyes.



Lolk
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:43 pm to
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I'm honestly trying to help you here. You're clearly not a dumb guy. But have you considered therapy? I think that it could do wonders for you. Do that and possibly a week long intensive treatment program if you can afford.

You're not dumb and I don't think deep down you're deplorable, but you do have opinions that to me resonate that you have deep frustrations towards others.


I think I am fine to be honest. I am getting ready to start a big job, I would have never gotten there if I had issues.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 3/7/17 at 10:44 pm to
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I wanted to do sports radio. I did it for a couple years. Just no money in it. Didn't want to continue to grind away looking for my break into being a host for a show


From all of the details you given, I've narrowed you down to one person on the tcu roster.
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