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re: 21 year old dating a 25 year old

Posted on 10/27/19 at 7:58 pm to
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138159 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 7:58 pm to
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I’d give us a C-.
I'd give you a D+

:BaDaTss:
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
Member since May 2017
5202 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 7:59 pm to
Yeah but it's a girl that is 4 years older than me. Is that even a thing? I've never heard of this
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 7:59 pm to
She’s looking for a ring at 25. Be careful, she’ll treat you like Gold until she’s pregnant.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138159 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:00 pm to
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Collegedropout


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Yeah but it's a girl that is 4 years older than me. Is that even a thing? I've never heard of this
I hate everything you stand for
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
Member since May 2017
5202 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:00 pm to
I don't think about you at all
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138159 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:02 pm to
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don't think about you at all
says the cringey tool that just replied to me
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98750 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:02 pm to
25 will be my max after my wife leaves me
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138159 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:03 pm to
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25 will be my max after my wife leaves me
your wife plus 48 hours older will be my Max when your wife leaves you
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120053 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:06 pm to
So you are asking if it’s okay for an adult to date someone 4 years older than them? I don’t see where the potential problem in your question.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
22594 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:09 pm to
She’s probably figured herself out by now.

It will be easier than dating someone your own age.

My last few girlfriends have been substantially younger than me and I’ve had the opposite issue. They haven’t figured themselves out, and they haven’t learned how to communicate well yet.

Older is easier.

Women in their late twenties and early thirties are almost always looking to get married. And if you don’t want that, then don’t waste their time.
This post was edited on 10/27/19 at 8:12 pm
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:15 pm to
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Is this a horrible idea
it's just dating. no big deal. stop being a melodramatic attention whore
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
24490 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:21 pm to
It’s fine. Kinda sad for the 25 year old though.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:33 pm to
Couldn't agree more. Youngest I have dated was this year was 31 (I'm 64 - yes boys it still works at this age without pills; you just have to take care of yourself).

But back to topic, the sex was great but at 31 she didn't have a clue. Broke the relationship off because it was too much of an annoyance. I also had concerns about her getting preggers but addressed that with Plan B pills which were casually offered, accepted, and taken in my presence. But no. I don't want to do that again. 45 is the youngest I'll go out with. 55 is the oldest.

If you are dating a 25 Y/O and ride bareback, stop by the drugstore and pick up one. It will be worth it.
Posted by Sweltering Chill
Member since Aug 2017
2150 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:39 pm to
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Women in their late twenties and early thirties are almost always looking to get married. .



In some cases, yeah.. but at 25, most are still just in a ‘partying’ phase.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:41 pm to
Correct.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
22594 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:43 pm to
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But back to topic, the sex was great but at 31 she didn't have a clue.


It can drive you crazy. I was dating a sheltered (sort of) 21 year old and it was just a nightmare. She didn’t know how to talk about problems. So small issues metastasised and became big issues.

Everyone matures at their own pace though, the next girl I dated wasn’t any older, but she was twice as wise. She made everything easy.
This post was edited on 10/27/19 at 8:47 pm
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
24490 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:43 pm to
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Youngest I have dated was this year was 31 (I'm 64 - yes boys it still works at this age without pills;


Ugh. fricking gross.
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
49830 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:44 pm to
I was about that old when I started dating my wife who was a freshman at LSU. Married almost 30 years now.
Posted by OchoDedos
Republic of Texas
Member since Oct 2014
39306 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:44 pm to
It's four fricking years. What's the problem?
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82702 posts
Posted on 10/27/19 at 8:45 pm to
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Ugh. fricking gross.



To each their own. Once you're no longer so young that you can be abused or manipulated, I see nothing wrong with it.
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