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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:41 am
Posted by Brobocop
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:41 am
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Posted by tigeralum06
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:42 am to
What is the money difference?
Posted by Brobocop
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:43 am to
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Posted by Ron Cheramie
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:45 am to
How good of friends are you with this guy?
Posted by ATLdawg25
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2014
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:45 am to
How close are you with this friend? He might not be upset with you for taking the other job, but it's going to make him look pretty bad when his recommendation quits a week into the job.
Posted by Brobocop
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:48 am to
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Posted by Ron Cheramie
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:56 am to
Would talk to him and explain it. He should understand but if he stuck his neck out for you it could look bad on him

Either way, you have to put yourself first and if company A has the best potential for you, the answer is simple
Posted by DieDaily
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 7:58 am to
I don't think I'd want to work for a company that so blatantly wastes my time. The hiring manager really couldn't take 5 minutes out of their day to update their (clearly) best candidate? No thank you. Also, as was mentioned, you'd be potentially screwing over your friend.
Posted by Brobocop
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:03 am to
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Posted by Brobocop
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2018
1903 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:06 am to
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I don't think I'd want to work for a company that so blatantly wastes my time. The hiring manager really couldn't take 5 minutes out of their day to update their (clearly) best candidate? No thank you. Also, as was mentioned, you'd be potentially screwing over your friend.


So, I was being updated, but everything they were telling me was very vague. They were struggling with position approvals through corporate, etc. "we'll let you know as soon as we know more" type of stuff.
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Posted by Doubledown11
Member since Jun 2017
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:10 am to
You likely were not thier first choice and the 4 weeks was them offering other candidates. Tread carefully.


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So, I was being updated, but everything they were telling me was very vague. They were struggling with position approvals through corporate, etc. "we'll let you know as soon as we know more" type of stuff.
Posted by Brobocop
Baton Rouge, LA
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:15 am to
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Posted by DieDaily
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:22 am to
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I was being updated, but everything they were telling me was very vague.
Okay. I thought it was radio silence until the offer came in, which I would argue is a potential symptom of internal problems within the company and something I wouldn't want to step into.

Having said that, I'd probably still stay with company B just because of exactly what your friend said. You would likely be putting them in a tough spot and burning a bridge (not with your friend, but others there) that could be useful later.

They made you and offer and you accepted it. However, we're not getting much detail here and I know you want to keep it vague. There are other factors, of course, since no one lives in a vacuum. Maybe you have a family and these "better benefits" would really help out your wife or a child, etc. Try to choose the option with the least negative impact for everyone involved.
Posted by Brobocop
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2018
1903 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:24 am to
trying to be as vague as possible.

Solid advice sir. Thanks
Posted by Doubledown11
Member since Jun 2017
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:24 am to
...agree with above
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Posted by ATLdawg25
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2014
4370 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:26 am to
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He's been consistent with "You have to do what's best for you"

quote:

But also said that if he were faced with a similar situation, he would not leave B for A, because he feels leaving that soon puts Company B in a bind.

That's not consistent. First sentence is do what's best for you, the second is do what's best for the company.

Personally I would take the job that would give me the best shot at long term success. If the money is fairly equal (you mentioned benefits were stronger at one vs the other, but that difference can only be so material), use projected career development. Which one will have you closer to where you want to be in 10 years?
Posted by Brobocop
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:27 am to
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Posted by LZ83
La
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:50 am to
I would stay with B. A needed approval to open up the position. They could easily say we don’t need it anymore.
Posted by castorinho
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Posted on 2/16/18 at 8:55 am to
Why would they interview candidates for a position that had not been approved?

I know some get canceled after interview process, but this sounds different
Posted by ATLdawg25
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2014
4370 posts
Posted on 2/16/18 at 9:08 am to
quote:

Why would they interview candidates for a position that had not been approved?

Yeah it makes no sense. That tells you it probably isn't a necessity for their operations and to watch out when they start trimming the fat.
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