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Why is having the "police talk" with your children an issue?

Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:28 pm
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
40095 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:28 pm
Parents have or are supposed to have conversations with their children about peer pressure, drugs, alcohol, sex, driving, and lots of other things. Why is having to have a conversation with your children about how to properly interact with police a big deal? It's just common sence.

However, if you are a parent and you do no know how to properly interact with police then just show this PSA to your kid(s) and maybe you should watch it to yourself too. It's kinda old (2007) but it is still relevant and accurate.

ETA: Watch the damn PSA people. It will give you a good laugh.
This post was edited on 4/22/21 at 4:44 pm
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101322 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:29 pm to
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Why is having to have a conversation with children about how to properly interact with police a big issue?


I never thought it was. My dad didn't either.
Posted by Big Gorilla
Bossier City
Member since Oct 2020
5452 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:30 pm to
I absolutely talked to my kids about how to act around police. Polite, no sudden moves, respond to their demands. For whatever reason you are in handcuffs, you say NOTHING and just ask for me. I will handle the rest.
Posted by papasmurf1269
Hells Pass
Member since Apr 2005
20887 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:31 pm to
My parents taught me to respect authority whether it be them or your teachers or the police.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
40095 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:31 pm to
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Why is having to have a conversation with children about how to properly interact with police a big issue?


I never thought it was. My dad didn't either.



Maybe you and your father should watch the PSA then.
Posted by EKG
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2010
44004 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:32 pm to
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Why is having to have a conversation with children about how to properly interact with police a big issue?

Not just police but with people in general.
My parents would’ve gone into orbit if I disrespected another adult.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
40095 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:32 pm to
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My parents taught me to respect authority whether it be them or your teachers or the police.




Did they teach you how to deal with the police if your woman is in the car with you and she is mad at you?
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
45171 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:33 pm to
It should be self evident.

But don’t fight or resist, keep your mouth shut, handle it with proper legal channels should cover it.
Posted by papasmurf1269
Hells Pass
Member since Apr 2005
20887 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:34 pm to
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Did they teach you how to deal with the police if your woman is in the car with you and she is mad at you?
They did not. It’s a good thing I rarely get pulled over.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
40095 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:39 pm to
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Did they teach you how to deal with the police if your woman is in the car with you and she is mad at you?
They did not. It’s a good thing I rarely get pulled over.



Then you should watch the PSA to educate yourself. You never know when you might need that knowledge.
Posted by papasmurf1269
Hells Pass
Member since Apr 2005
20887 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:46 pm to
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Then you should watch the PSA to educate yourself. You never know when you might need that knowledge.
I have seen it multiple times and it’s still funny as shite. It’s more true than you may know though
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
40095 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 4:54 pm to
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I have seen it multiple times and it’s still funny as shite. It’s more true than you may know though


I didn’t see anything in there that was false.
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
34674 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 5:00 pm to
All parents have a talk about the police with their kids. It seems like that talk is very different for different people

Seems like every time some black lady talks about how they had to give their kids a talk about police it revolves around how cops are evil and will try to kill you instead of respecting them and complying
Posted by Gus007
TN
Member since Jul 2018
11970 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 5:04 pm to
A good percentage don't know their parents. Grandma is the only figure in their lives.
This post was edited on 4/22/21 at 5:06 pm
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 5:09 pm to
This is a black activist talking point. All responsible parents ought to have this talk with this kids, and it should ramp up when they begin to drive on their own.

Most of it is simple stuff. Be respectful. Ask permission to reach for anything in the car before doing so. Keep your hands on the wheel unless instructed to do otherwise. if at night, turn your inside lights on before the LEO gets to you if pulled over. Even if you think he's wrong or is being a dick, stay clam and do not argue about it on the side of the road. You can address any issues later, but you're NEVER going to win an argument with a cop on the side of the road and you're going to make the situation potentially dangerous.

Of course, this is a much easier conversation if you've already raised kids that are generally respectful to others, generally follow the rules, generally behave themselves, and will generally listen to your when you have something important like this to tell them.

Suggesting this is somehow a "blacks only" conversation that black MUST have in order to save their lives is so silly. Again, all responsible parents should be having it, and secondly...it's pretty fricking clear based on the evidence that black families by and large are not having the conversation at all or else most of these resisting arrest deaths would have never occurred.
Posted by WorkinDawg
Atlanta
Member since Sep 2012
9341 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 5:09 pm to
First, whatever their version of "the talk" is, is not working. Second, every decent parent has this talk with their kids. Every white person I know had some version of "the talk" so drop the "it's only us and it's because we are such victims" nonsense.
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 5:10 pm to
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Then you should watch the PSA to educate yourself.


Yeah...it's the Chris Rock bit, we get it.

At this point, though, it ought to be used as a PSA.
Posted by RoyalAir
Detroit
Member since Dec 2012
5879 posts
Posted on 4/22/21 at 5:17 pm to
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I absolutely talked to my kids about how to act around police. Polite, no sudden moves, respond to their demands. For whatever reason you are in handcuffs, you say NOTHING and just ask for me. I will handle the rest.


Pretty much this verbatim. My pops told me to treat cops with the same respect as a rattlesnake. He's doing his job and doesn't know you from Adam. Don't give him a reason to be overly suspicious, and never resist an arrest. The one time I was arrested, I followed commands and got an expensive taxi ride. Fight in court, but not the arresting officer.
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