re: How awful of a person do you have to be to have such strong feelings about abortion?

It's the disingenuousness and the (typical ) over the top hyperbole the Left uses.

' Women in Afghanistan are FREEER than here in the USA ' because Texas made it slightly more difficult to get an abortion ?

Women here in the US have advantages in damn near every area imaginable.

They can go to school. College. Get a masters or doctorate degree.
They can vote.
They can own property, run their own businesses.
Can walk unescorted in public places.
Drive a car.
Wear pretty much what ever they want to wear.

And regarding the matter of ' reproductive choices '...

Engage in all manner of sex with whom ever they want ( once of age ).
Buy , or obtain freely, an assortment of birth control.
Decide whether or not to HAVE sex.
Choose to not have sex unless their partner uses protection...

It's so absurd getting into an argument with these zealots that most folks just stay silent and it gets assumed that means everyone agrees with them. They DON'T.