re: Christmas Sex...anyone else getting shut down for Christmas?

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I find it a little strange but not scheduled date nights or whatever. If you aren't having sex somewhat regularly with your spouse I think you should talk to them about it and try to figure out why.

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Sex, or the lack there of, is usually a symptom of a bigger rooted issue. If you don’t fix or avoid the bigger issue, other areas of your relationship, such as sex, will suffer.

Anger, resentment, disrespect, lack of trust, fear, etc. are likely attached to deeper rooter issues usually caused knowingly or unknowingly by one spouse through repeated poor decision making or selfishness.

Many women find a connection with their male partner through an emotional connection which leads to a physical connection. Men, on the other hand, are connected more physically, which then leads them to an emotional connection.

TLDR, if you don’t care for your spouse and fix issues within yourself that are destructive to your relationship, in time, chances are someone else will, deliberately or unintentionally.