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re: Life changes quick
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:08 pm to fallguy_1978
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:08 pm to fallguy_1978
I’ve been with my current wife for over 25 years and the only time we will be separate is when one of us passes on.
Question.... would you rather have acceptance or appreciation???????
Question.... would you rather have acceptance or appreciation???????
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:12 pm to Will Cover
Will, I literally have no clue what I wanna do. Some days I’m like frick that bitch and then there are days that I feel like I would give it another very cautious shot with her. I haven’t forgiven what she did but I’m at peace with it because I knew early on and just needed to confirm it. The woman that I’ve been dealing with since June 7th is a completely different person than she was in let’s say just March. Can’t lie up until last Tuesday I’ve actually remained pretty calm in dealing with her, normally our phone conversations end up in her crying accusing me of using the kids against her, I haven’t said a bad word about the woman in front of them but I did tell my oldest 2 about the affair
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:14 pm to dukke v
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I’ve been with my current wife for over 25 years
Is she the one that was screwing the guy on the Houseboat?
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:17 pm to TigerMatt225
The right moves so far.... when my first wife thought it was best to leave, she didn’t say a word and hid my two kids away from me for over a year...... talk about a crushing blow. Not really about her leaving but you don’t hide the kids away from their father for over a year...... that’s just plain hatred for the kids. She is and always will be a total loser in life.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:18 pm to TigerMatt225
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, I haven’t said a bad word about the woman in front of them but I did tell my oldest 2 about the affair
Man that's tough. I grew up in a broken home. Don't bad mouth your kids' mother in front of them, even if she did you wrong. They'll understand who did what over time.
That's a tough spot to be in for sure. I don't envy you but wish you the best.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:19 pm to TchoupitoulasTiger
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She has a window of opportunity to wreck your credit. Don’t let her.
Just curious about this step, in particular “don’t let her”. Should I try hitting her?
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:25 pm to lepdagod
Sorry Man. I found out online 7 years ago in August when she wrote a check to a divorce lawyer and it cleared. It took a few months but my life is a lot better. Good luck it's going to be ok
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:27 pm to Bistineaubengal
I’d agree, this needs to be required reading, from my personal experience I’d put #10 as #2 but other than that it’s a good list. My reason, based on my past, is that if you don’t file for legal separation, your wife or husband whichever the case, can run up purchases on credit cards, drain joint bank accounts and acquire loans which means you will be legally responsible for half the debt, once a legal separation is filed, this stops. This can be financially disastrous regardless of whether the couple goes through with a divorce or works things out and stay together.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:28 pm to fallguy_1978
She accuses me of trying to turn to them against her, she always questions them “so what has your dad been saying about me?” They both have let her know that I don’t speak a bad word about her. I’m actually the one who encourages them to call her, go spend time with her and all that such. They don’t like being around her too much anymore cause she doesn’t spend the quality time with them always on her phone, hiding the screen or running outside.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:29 pm to TigerMatt225
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I haven’t forgiven what she did but I’m at peace with it
You need to forgive her(not forget it)..... not for her but for yourself.
You don't necessarily have to even tell her you forgive her. But you need to forgive her in your heart. So that you can truly move on and live your best life. Holding on to the anger and bitterness over their betrayal will only weigh you down more in the long run.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:31 pm to SuperSaint
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Get some new pussy and buy a 4Runner
I walk with a limp cuz my nuts heavy...
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:32 pm to Hogwarts
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If it seems out of the blue in one person’s view, 99 percent of the time, there is someone else involved, probably Jody.
And 9 times out of 10 she was seeking Jody because her husband couldn’t satisfy her.
Get back in the game OP and for your sake, work on paying attention to the next one.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:35 pm to TigerMatt225
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I’m actually the one who encourages them to call her, go spend time with her and all that such. They don’t like being around her too much anymore cause she doesn’t spend the quality time with them always on her phone, hiding the screen or running outside.
My parents were like oil and water and should have never been married to begin with. But there was infidelity and we knew about it as kids.
I rarely spoke to my mother for nearly a decade. It can be tough on the kids. You've got to do what's best for them and you.
No offense, but it sounds like your wife has checked out. That's on her, not you. If she's running around hiding her phone and stuff like that she's still got something going on with someone.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:37 pm to fallguy_1978
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The OT really makes me realize how normal my relationship is with my wife sometimes
Truth. I'm 42, no kids, never been married, do well for myself, and if i get married a prenup is going to absolutely be a condition of that marriage.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:39 pm to Lithium
Wow. Online????? Didn’t I meet your ex at a tailgate???????
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:41 pm to Chucktown_Badger
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and if i get married a prenup is going to absolutely be a condition of that marriage.
Unless she’s got money. Then you won’t even bring up that word
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:42 pm to Chucktown_Badger
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Truth. I'm 42, no kids, never been married, do well for myself, and if i get married a prenup is going to absolutely be a condition of that marriage.
We are the same age but I've been with my wife for 16 years so being single is kind of a faint memory at this point. Neither of us had shite when we got married so a prenup never came up
This post was edited on 7/5/20 at 12:45 pm
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:42 pm to Tyga Woods
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Get some new pussy and buy a 4Runner
I walk with a limp cuz my nuts heavy...
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:42 pm to DustyDinkleman
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Unless she’s got money. Then you won’t even bring up that word
Of course
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:46 pm to fallguy_1978
As long as you and her are happy, that’s all that matters......
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