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I'm struggling and this is probably the worst fricking place to vent but I'm doing it anywa
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:07 am
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:07 am
Had a death in the family from a drug problem . I'm dealing with that okay but frick me.
The woman I love is pregnant with my kid and she immediately did a 180 and all of a sudden no longer wants to be with me.
This fricking sucks guys. Everything was great. I had it layed out and a future planned with this girl so I could give this kid the life I never dreamed if having as a kid but she's straight done with me.
I don't understand how someone could straight leave the father so easily. What's it going to be like attending doctors appointments with her, or delivering the baby. It's supposed to be a special moment, and I can't even imagine what it'll be like doing this separated.
I grew up wondering why my parents hated each other and my child is going to do the same. No matter what I say or do she won't give me a second anymore.
I seriously love this girl, and it looks like I'll never have her again. She's only 6 weeks in, and I'm supposed to be taking care of her. Me.
It hurts like a motherfricker . Everyone tells me she'll come around but I don't see it at all.
Vent over..fml
The woman I love is pregnant with my kid and she immediately did a 180 and all of a sudden no longer wants to be with me.
This fricking sucks guys. Everything was great. I had it layed out and a future planned with this girl so I could give this kid the life I never dreamed if having as a kid but she's straight done with me.
I don't understand how someone could straight leave the father so easily. What's it going to be like attending doctors appointments with her, or delivering the baby. It's supposed to be a special moment, and I can't even imagine what it'll be like doing this separated.
I grew up wondering why my parents hated each other and my child is going to do the same. No matter what I say or do she won't give me a second anymore.
I seriously love this girl, and it looks like I'll never have her again. She's only 6 weeks in, and I'm supposed to be taking care of her. Me.
It hurts like a motherfricker . Everyone tells me she'll come around but I don't see it at all.
Vent over..fml
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:09 am to GeauxTigerNation
Straight drop her if you want a shot, don’t go to any appointments or give her a penny
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:10 am to GeauxTigerNation
Hang in there bro. Better times coming

Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:18 am to GeauxTigerNation
She’s probably flipping out over the pregnancy and panicked. Need to have a sit down with her and hash it out. Don’t get pissed or anxious, just a calm one on one discussion. Let her know you are going to help her through this. Having a kid is life changing and she’s probably just overwhelmed
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:18 am to GeauxTigerNation
Perhaps try focusing on her? Make her feel like she hasn't trapped you into something by getting pregnant?
Women are attention whores, give her some attention.....without mentioning the baby.
Women are attention whores, give her some attention.....without mentioning the baby.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:20 am to GeauxTigerNation
sounds like the type that is probably going to go have an abortion as we speak.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:29 am to GeauxTigerNation
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This post was edited on 9/27/18 at 3:07 am
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:34 am to VinegarStrokes
Nah, she's adamant about keeping the kid. So am I.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:49 am to GeauxTigerNation
Women can fool you man.
They can turn out to be liars. Sometimes they don’t know wtf they want. Sometimes they mentally turn on a dime and everything they said and did just goes whoop out the window. Sucks and it can wreck your life if you let it.
Don’t let it.
They can turn out to be liars. Sometimes they don’t know wtf they want. Sometimes they mentally turn on a dime and everything they said and did just goes whoop out the window. Sucks and it can wreck your life if you let it.
Don’t let it.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:56 am to GeauxTigerNation
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This fricking sucks guys. Everything was great. I had it layed out and a future planned with this girl so I could give this kid the life I never dreamed if having as a kid but she's straight done with me.
You still can give the kid a life you never dreamed of. Don’t let a strained relationship with the mother change the type of father you want to be.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:21 am to GeauxTigerNation
Why weren’t y’all married before before deciding to bring a baby into this world?
The kid will grow up with a higher chance to be messed up because y’all didnt have your shite together.
You chose poorly.
The kid will grow up with a higher chance to be messed up because y’all didnt have your shite together.
You chose poorly.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:26 am to Kevin TheRant
Are you positive you are the father? Something is up if two are in a relationship and she does a 180 after getting pregnant. Either she has reason to think you would not be a good father or you are not the dad. If it were me I would go talk to her mom and ask for advice hoping to get on her good side knowing your gf will probably go to her mother for guidance.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:42 am to ninthward
quote:Yep. With a lawyer and child support order.
She'll be back.
Welcome to a near 19 year long fleecing as you’ll pay for the pregnancy medical expenses and delivery costs as well.
This post was edited on 9/27/18 at 3:43 am
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:49 am to GeauxTigerNation
First of all, take a breath. I’m guessing she’s a bit freaked out, be patient and supportive, don’t pile on too much too soon, give her some space. Good luck, you seem like a good man and future father, give her time to realize that.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:51 am to GeauxTigerNation
Get that baby DNA tested right away baw. She 100% was cheating on you
Posted on 9/27/18 at 4:06 am to GeauxTigerNation
Like one of them red neck comics says....most men would be gay if it wasnt for the sex
Posted on 9/27/18 at 4:08 am to Pelican fan99
Impossible. She would have never had the time, and the time of pregnancy timing is exactly what we thought it would be.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 4:20 am to Strannix
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Straight drop her if you want a shot, don’t go to any appointments or give her a penny
It sounds harsh, but this is the only way you even have a chance at getting her back. But honestly, if my gf was pulling that kind of shite on me, I wouldn’t want to be with her if she ever came crawling back. Be there for your kid 100% but tell her to kick rocks.
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