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re: This 15 year old baw makes the “catch me outside” girl look tame
Posted on 6/13/18 at 2:39 pm to TDcline
Posted on 6/13/18 at 2:39 pm to TDcline
I don't have children so this is an honest question - how does a kid get to this point? Too many years of parents letting them do what they want?
Seems like the dad could have beat his arse (within reason) years ago and could have nipped this in the bud?
Seems like the dad could have beat his arse (within reason) years ago and could have nipped this in the bud?
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Posted on 6/13/18 at 2:40 pm to sweetwaterbilly
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I don't have children so this is an honest question - how does a kid get to this point? Too many years of parents letting them do what they want?
Seems like the dad could have beat his arse (within reason) years ago and could have nipped this in the bud?
It is just bad parenting. Plain and simple.
Posted on 6/13/18 at 3:23 pm to sweetwaterbilly
quote:
I don't have children so this is an honest question - how does a kid get to this point? Too many years of parents letting them do what they want?
Seems like the dad could have beat his arse (within reason) years ago and could have nipped this in the bud?
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Too many years of parents letting them do what they want?
This.
And letting too much crap slide. This kid didn’t just start telling his parents whatever the hell he wanted. The first time he called mom a bitch probably happened a long time ago and dad failed to make sure that was the last time.
Posted on 6/13/18 at 7:03 pm to sweetwaterbilly
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I don't have children so this is an honest question - how does a kid get to this point? Too many years of parents letting them do what they want?
At this point...the dad standing up could calm the situation short term...however long term probably not going to effect Rivers too much. Rivers would most likely control his rage until the right moment to get revenge. He needs psychological help in addition to the other.
Rivers needed consistent boundaries from day 1...as do all kids. He would have had a better chance of learning to respect his parents. How many times do we think the elementary school disciplined this kid and parents consoled little Rivers or complained to the school?
My son is much bigger than myself...and stronger now as well. But I can look at him and he will shut up because he learned to respect me from his earliest memories.
None of us enjoy seeing our little ones upset or hurt. However, preventing discomfort in their early lives is not the goal...preventing this type of personality is.
Give your kid everything, feel sorry for them when they suffer consequences, complain when other people and school discipline them early in life, etc. and this is the risk you take.
And dads quote "I will never hit my child"?
That child is a danger to his other family. He deserves it if he threatens another family member.
This post was edited on 6/13/18 at 7:04 pm
Posted on 6/13/18 at 8:58 pm to sweetwaterbilly
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I don't have children so this is an honest question - how does a kid get to this point? Too many years of parents letting them do what they want?
Most likely horrendous parenting, but undiagnosed mental disorders can lead to shite like that too.
Posted on 6/14/18 at 10:02 am to sweetwaterbilly
My boy got in with the wrong crowd around the time of Columbine. I had a huge bonfire and made him watch while I burned every CD and black article of clothing he owned. Then convinced him I was dropping him off in the streets unless he straightened his arse up. He could only go to school or church and I drove him there. I body searched and searched his backpack daily. He told the world he was being tormented by his parents.
Worked for me.
Worked for me.
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