re: Parent Problems looking for advice

Your right about the arse whooping, we have gotten into it twice, one time he got the best of me and threatened to kill me the other time I got some shots in but I'm terrified of if I ever got him in a spot where I could whale on him that I wouldn't stop, 26 years of control, mental abuse, him hurting my mom, talking shite about my wife, death threats, and whatever else would blow a fuse that I don't think I could stop... My wife has had to stop me from leaving my house because he had me so tired up because she was scared of me either dying or going to jail....I am a very respectable person but my wife, my kid, and my mom are my everything and if you frick with them in no a nice person anymore....I can get along with anybody and everybody and I think I turned out dang good for the way I was raised(thanks to my mom)

I have seen flashes of him in me when he stresses me out and I get in a bad mood and I say mean things but there is a difference, I will look at myself and say you were wrong jackass don't do it again you are not like him