re: Is this normal in a relationship?

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So nurse you think me proposing and putting a ring on it just erases all these issues ?

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No, and if you think so...you are dumb.


Does she get any time to herself now on a regular basis? Do you offer to care for your daughter so she can go have lunch with a friend or get a manicure or something that just gets her out the house for a few hours?

Do you still have date nights with her now? Get someone to watch the baby and give her a reason to get dressed up and go somewhere?

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So nurse you think me proposing and putting a ring on it just erases all these issues ?

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Dude, you have a lot of life lessons to learn. Man the frick up. Do your part around the house. You're in this relationship one way or another for the rest of your life. My wife and I share the household workload. This is a team effort to make the best life possible. Your SO is not your personal slave. If you want your relationship to flourish, then you need to change your attitude. It takes two people giving their best effort to make it work.

If you're unwilling to make the sacrifices needed to have a successful and love filled relationship, then prepare to move on and pay child support. Honestly, considering you haven't asked her to marry you, then I have to believe you're the one uncommitted to the long-term success of your relationship.