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Now she's feeling a lot of anger towards the adoptive parents, who didn't notify her. I know they didn't have to, but I can see my wife's point. They knew she wanted to meet him, and they they also deprived her of knowing about his death. I don't understand why someone would do that.

Plenty of people have addressed other parts of your post, but my thoughts when I came to this part is, those people just lost their son. You're wife will hopefully realize soon that she feels a fraction of the pain that they are going through.

Whatever their motivations may have been for standing in the way of a reconnection, your wife or her desires probably never entered their heads during this time.

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Posted by cajunangelle

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Posted on 12/31/17 at 7:07 am to Wayne Campbell

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Plenty of people have addressed other parts of your post, but my thoughts when I came to this part is, those people just lost their son. You're wife will hopefully realize soon that she feels a fraction of the pain that they are going through.

Whatever their motivations may have been for standing in the way of a reconnection, your wife or her desires probably never entered their heads during this time.

The OP himself has said it in this thread. A man does not understand a mothers bond. It seems as if all the replies in this thread like yours, are from men who just don't get it. That just because she gave him up for adoption, does not make the pain and grief for her; any less than the adoptive parents pain and grief.

This post was edited on 12/31/17 at 7:24 am

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