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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:23 am to reverendotis
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:23 am to reverendotis
It took a bit but I read all of your advice and honest words. I know I'm an a-hole here but I mean, you come here so much you all feel comfortable to talk to and shite.. so thanks.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:25 am to GEAUXmedic
quote:Thank you. In advance. For the pics. That you still haven't posted.
so thanks.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 am to GEAUXmedic
quote:
It took a bit but I read all of your advice and honest words. I know I'm an a-hole here but I mean, you come here so much you all feel comfortable to talk to and shite.. so thanks.
You're not an a-hole, she is. Cut ties now. Just start creating space now.
Its like an infection in a way, and the quicker you cut it off, the less it'll spread.
Don't be devastated, you have a fresh new start to something good that doesn't break down on you, but you have start within yourself. Be confident in what you bring to the table, and take care of your daughter.
Don't be angry, petty, or jealous, or it'll tear you apart. The more you prove to her you can move on from this with ease, the more she'll regret her decision.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:31 am to GEAUXmedic
Detach from the obvious emotional component for a moment. Marriage is a legal contract which carries all the weight thereof.
You and the until recently future Mrs Geauxmedic were about to start a new business together. Think of it that way and realize that you just found out your new business partner was a crook and the deal fell through in the nick of time.
You were saved the future losses that inevitably come from being in business with a crook and you avoided all the legal entanglements.
Don't forgive her a goddamn thing. She's out.
You and the until recently future Mrs Geauxmedic were about to start a new business together. Think of it that way and realize that you just found out your new business partner was a crook and the deal fell through in the nick of time.
You were saved the future losses that inevitably come from being in business with a crook and you avoided all the legal entanglements.
Don't forgive her a goddamn thing. She's out.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:32 am to GEAUXmedic
Medic everyone pretty much knows my past on here. This place maybe a shitshow 95% of the time but it has some really good IRL lessons and alot of life experiences to back those lessons up.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 4:48 am to GEAUXmedic
Emotions are high right now, but speaking logically, and considering the facts that have been recently brought to light, you might want to consider a paternity test. You just found out about the true character of the woman you've obviously been with long enough to conceive a child, silver lining is, you found out before getting married. Now, cross those T's and dot those I's and make sure you know what is true and what is not so that you can make sound decisions going forward.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:03 am to GEAUXmedic
Bitches ain’t shite but hoes and tricks. They all have it somewhere in them. Just because they haven’t discovered it, doesn’t mean you have to ignore it
I’m curious why she came clean. Is she acting like she wants to try and work it out with you? Cause don’t believe that shite. If she wanted to stay together she would never have admitted to anything.
Good luck. Reading this made me put myself in your position and I’m not sure how I’d handle it. Just know it would suck.
I’m curious why she came clean. Is she acting like she wants to try and work it out with you? Cause don’t believe that shite. If she wanted to stay together she would never have admitted to anything.
Good luck. Reading this made me put myself in your position and I’m not sure how I’d handle it. Just know it would suck.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 7:04 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:18 am to GEAUXmedic
Are you sure the kid is yours? Get a paternity test.
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