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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:23 am to
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Premium Member
Member since Nov 2011
41598 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:23 am to
It took a bit but I read all of your advice and honest words. I know I'm an a-hole here but I mean, you come here so much you all feel comfortable to talk to and shite.. so thanks.
Posted by FCP
Delta State Univ. - Fightin' Okra
Member since Sep 2010
4820 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:25 am to
quote:

so thanks.
Thank you. In advance. For the pics. That you still haven't posted.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61512 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 am to
quote:

It took a bit but I read all of your advice and honest words. I know I'm an a-hole here but I mean, you come here so much you all feel comfortable to talk to and shite.. so thanks.




You're not an a-hole, she is. Cut ties now. Just start creating space now.

Its like an infection in a way, and the quicker you cut it off, the less it'll spread.

Don't be devastated, you have a fresh new start to something good that doesn't break down on you, but you have start within yourself. Be confident in what you bring to the table, and take care of your daughter.

Don't be angry, petty, or jealous, or it'll tear you apart. The more you prove to her you can move on from this with ease, the more she'll regret her decision.
Posted by reverendotis
the jawbone of an arse
Member since Nov 2007
4867 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:31 am to
Detach from the obvious emotional component for a moment. Marriage is a legal contract which carries all the weight thereof.

You and the until recently future Mrs Geauxmedic were about to start a new business together. Think of it that way and realize that you just found out your new business partner was a crook and the deal fell through in the nick of time.

You were saved the future losses that inevitably come from being in business with a crook and you avoided all the legal entanglements.

Don't forgive her a goddamn thing. She's out.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54868 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:32 am to
Medic everyone pretty much knows my past on here. This place maybe a shitshow 95% of the time but it has some really good IRL lessons and alot of life experiences to back those lessons up.
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
11482 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 4:48 am to
Emotions are high right now, but speaking logically, and considering the facts that have been recently brought to light, you might want to consider a paternity test. You just found out about the true character of the woman you've obviously been with long enough to conceive a child, silver lining is, you found out before getting married. Now, cross those T's and dot those I's and make sure you know what is true and what is not so that you can make sound decisions going forward.
Posted by FelicianaTigerfan
Comanche County
Member since Aug 2009
26059 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:03 am to
Bitches ain’t shite but hoes and tricks. They all have it somewhere in them. Just because they haven’t discovered it, doesn’t mean you have to ignore it

I’m curious why she came clean. Is she acting like she wants to try and work it out with you? Cause don’t believe that shite. If she wanted to stay together she would never have admitted to anything.

Good luck. Reading this made me put myself in your position and I’m not sure how I’d handle it. Just know it would suck.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 7:04 am
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
83284 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:18 am to
Are you sure the kid is yours? Get a paternity test.
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