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re: Why Women Cheat (per CNN)
Posted on 10/5/17 at 1:38 pm to 13SaintTiger
Posted on 10/5/17 at 1:38 pm to 13SaintTiger
quote:
"The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch." It occurred to me as I listened that these women were describing infidelity not as a transgression but a creative or even subversive act, a protest against an institution they'd come to experience as suffocating or oppressive. In an earlier generation, this might have taken the form of separation or divorce, but now, it seemed, more and more women were unwilling to abandon the marriages and families they'd built over years or decades. They were also unwilling to bear the stigma of a publicly open marriage or to go through the effort of negotiating such a complex arrangement.
Now they're trying to justify this?
Welp, time to get on my knees and apologize for my fidelity privilege.
Posted on 10/5/17 at 1:54 pm to 13SaintTiger
Man and to think I was fricking cynical. Some of yall
.
I use to be the guy that planned everything around the chick I was dating.
Then I grew a brain and a pair of nuts and went to the distant, mysterious, and barely available playbook.
Haven't looked back since.
I think some dudes misinterpret what woman actually mean (shite I still don't really know).
To me, when a woman says she wants a sensitive dude, she means be there to pick her off the ground. It doesn't mean to me be a emo, baby back bitch.
To me, when a woman says she wants a leader, she means don't give her options, tell her when to be ready and where we are going.
Once I stopped giving women options on things, the connections improved.
I feel like people who cheat have a mechanism that has been removed. Once you cross that line, you get comfortable with the thought and it doesn't bother you as much. You can try to pretend that you'll never do it again, but if you've done it numerous times you know deep down that's false. The only reason you haven't done it now is because there is not a direct opportunity you see as a way to upgrade from your current situation.
I am not saying its impossible, but the odds are heavily in favor of a cheater cheating again.
On a side note, I personally think women are cheating more because a lot of dudes have been raised to be extremely feminine. Biology still rules and from my experiences around lady friends and women in general, they still want a MAN.
We can discuss what an actual MAN is in another thread for another day.
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I use to be the guy that planned everything around the chick I was dating.
Then I grew a brain and a pair of nuts and went to the distant, mysterious, and barely available playbook.
Haven't looked back since.
I think some dudes misinterpret what woman actually mean (shite I still don't really know).
To me, when a woman says she wants a sensitive dude, she means be there to pick her off the ground. It doesn't mean to me be a emo, baby back bitch.
To me, when a woman says she wants a leader, she means don't give her options, tell her when to be ready and where we are going.
Once I stopped giving women options on things, the connections improved.
I feel like people who cheat have a mechanism that has been removed. Once you cross that line, you get comfortable with the thought and it doesn't bother you as much. You can try to pretend that you'll never do it again, but if you've done it numerous times you know deep down that's false. The only reason you haven't done it now is because there is not a direct opportunity you see as a way to upgrade from your current situation.
I am not saying its impossible, but the odds are heavily in favor of a cheater cheating again.
On a side note, I personally think women are cheating more because a lot of dudes have been raised to be extremely feminine. Biology still rules and from my experiences around lady friends and women in general, they still want a MAN.
We can discuss what an actual MAN is in another thread for another day.
Posted on 10/5/17 at 3:49 pm to 13SaintTiger
Women built the marriage. Men are unworthy. They cheat for the greater good. Men should be thankful.
It's not their fault. Men are not giving them all they "NEED".
What a bunch of ridiculous bullshite.
It's not their fault. Men are not giving them all they "NEED".
What a bunch of ridiculous bullshite.
Posted on 10/5/17 at 5:11 pm to 13SaintTiger
Regardless of this whore behavior all these women would win if divorced.
Posted on 10/5/17 at 7:30 pm to 13SaintTiger
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Why Women Cheat
Women cheat just like men do.
I personaly think women cheat more because of an emotional response than a man would.
By that I mean, a wife who feels she has not been given attention, especially after kids, is far prone to have a fling.
I think a guy is just more to be drunk and say frick it. (not that a woman wouldn't do the same)
I will also say that I have recently seen what a newly sepertated woman with kids has done. I'm just an observer of this from the outside.
She has wasted no time in getting back into the scene and whatnot. It was pretty striking to see.
People are funny. Men or women really.
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Posted on 10/5/17 at 8:02 pm to 13SaintTiger
quote:
Why Women Cheat (per CNN
Because they are whores at heart.
You’re welcome.
Posted on 10/5/17 at 9:22 pm to 13SaintTiger
They're whores. This isnt new info
Posted on 10/6/17 at 12:30 pm to 13SaintTiger
1)Women probably cheat because their current man wears skinny pants/jeans.
2) women probably cheat because their current man is never home or plugged into something/someone else.
3) women cheat because men cheat
4) I do not cheat.
2) women probably cheat because their current man is never home or plugged into something/someone else.
3) women cheat because men cheat
4) I do not cheat.
Posted on 10/6/17 at 2:21 pm to 13SaintTiger
A culture that celebrates promiscuous behavior and demonizes virtue and chastity. Plus the Birth Control Pill help create a permenant class of disillusioned and exploited young women (and young men as well), which led to the HIV pandemic, which led to the explosion in STD's (110 million reported cases today) which led to a divorce rate pass 50% which led to more angry young people. One of the products of that age (Stephen Paddock) was so angry he took an assault rifle and killed a bunch of innocent people. Vicious cycle.
That's why they call it free love, I guess. Which isn't free at all since there is a price.... big big price.
That's why they call it free love, I guess. Which isn't free at all since there is a price.... big big price.
This post was edited on 10/6/17 at 2:33 pm
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