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Women in their 30s who are mad about the options they have for a long term relationship and marriage should have thought twice about that in their 20s prime years when they were rejecting commitment from men left and right because they wanted to "find themselves"

What about the one's who wanted to finish college, chase their career, not get knocked up, marry ole boy from the woods and be divorced by this point. Yes, I would admit that I passed off committments to subgrade men because I didn't want to be a statistic. A 30 something single mother struggling to make ends meet, with no time or mental capacity to go to school in hopes to get a decent job. I rather be a 30 something single women, with a good job, good credit, time and money to travel, and a house full of cats to go home to. Haha! Just Kidding, I only have 1 cat.

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Problem is they want commitment from said high value men who they are physically attracted to. The problem is those high value men don't want anything to do with committing to her, because she is past her prime and these men can get younger pieces of arse instead

Maybe I need to expand my cap age limit...

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Posted by goldennugget

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Posted on 4/6/17 at 4:47 pm to dcs930

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What about the one's who wanted to finish college, chase their career,

This is why feminism has been so toxic. It tries to convince women that they can both have a successful career AND land the man of their dreams and be a good mom/family woman. I am not saying that women who work are bad but if a woman wants to focus on her career she needs to accept the fact that when she is finally ready to settle down in her 30s that the pickings for men are not going to be very high quality.

Women in their 20s need to make a choice - you can focus on your career, or you can focus on having your ideal marriage/family.

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I rather be a 30 something single women, with a good job, good credit, time and money to travel, and a house full of cats to go home to.

That's fine. Just realize you probably aren't going to land the man of your dreams and have your ideal family if you go this route. Ignore what feminism tries to tell you

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Maybe I need to expand my cap age limit...

See my post above. It's not the worst idea. Men in their 30s, are either already taken/married. If not, if they are attractive, will go younger. So you are left with lower value men. Most women your age don't want to date younger. So that really leaves you with men in their upper 30s/40s.

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Posted by Evil Little Thing