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Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:06 pm to
Posted by chris504
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2012
588 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:06 pm to
quote:

(Pics depend on response quality)


Quality of responses depend on how hot she is

But seriously, just go for it. I find it unlikely that a girl suddenly starts talking to you so much unless she's got some level of interest. If you're unsure, invite her to go somewhere thats usually a date type place or event. If you live around NOLA, take her to Celebration in the Oaks at City Park and go walking through all the Christmas lights with her and when the opportunity is there, try to hold her hand. If she gives you an awkward look or asks what you're doing, you're friend zoned. If she makes smiles and looks you in the eyes, go for it

Good luck and pics
Posted by partywiththelombardi
Member since May 2012
11601 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:07 pm to
quote:

so I honestly need help because I have no clue what to do. I feel like she does like me but I don't know
You sound really young/naive. You have probably been friend zoned for waiting too long. You need to start working out a lot and expressing interest in other chicks. Gauge her reaction to it. That will tell you your next move.
This post was edited on 12/2/16 at 8:08 pm
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56605 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:09 pm to
You need this message.
quote:

Ted Mosby Is A Whiny Little Bitch... He's one of the main characters on the hit show How I Met Your Mother... I know it’s a VERY popular show - over 10 million viewers an episode... But I don’t care, I hate him... Because he does everything wrong with women - he’s needy, he’s insecure, he’s wishy-washy and weak… He’s an insufferable crybaby with low self-esteem… He’s pretentious and self-absorbed… He whines all the time and NEVER goes for what he wants... He’s a flat out LIAR - meaning, he comes up with all kinds of crazy “schemes” to get women to like him instead of just talking to them like a man… And yet… He ALWAYS gets the girl... The Myth Of The Lovable Loser... This type of character is called “The Lovable Loser”... And you can find this guy everywhere… For example: Nick, from “New Girl” (gets Zoe Deschanel)... Leonard, from the Big Bang Theory (gets Kaley Cuoco)... Ross, from Friends (gets Jennifer Aniston)... The list goes on and on... Now you might be thinking… chill out man, it’s just a TV show. It’s not that big of a deal... Well, to that I say, NO, I will not chill out... And you shouldn’t either. Because the things we see in the media have the power to shape our beliefs and worldview... First we see a message on TV, then it gets reinforced when we hear our friends talking about it, then we see it posted on social media... And without even realizing it, we start to believe the message is true... In this case, it’s the massively popular message that women like “lovable losers”. That if you sit around whining about being single and daydreaming about “the one” falling into your lap someday, then someday, she WILL fall into your lap... Because you’re a “nice guy” and you deserve it... Which, as well all know, is complete and utter bullshite... Look, I don’t know where this myth came from, or why it’s everywhere these days… I just know that it’s emasculating millions of men and making them wimps... If you buy into it, of course... But of course, you and I know these things are NOT true... Women don’t want a pushover. They want a guy who does what he wants and doesn’t take shite from anyone… They don’t want Ted Mosby… They want Barney Stinson (Neil Patrick Harris, the true star of How I Met Your Mother)... Women Want A Man Who Radiates Personal Power...
GG
This post was edited on 12/2/16 at 8:24 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114236 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:09 pm to
I would think that after 4 months, if there was something sexual then things would have already happened. Just be an adult about it, establish where the relationship is so that yall will be on the same page.
Posted by Mir
Member since Sep 2016
2777 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:12 pm to
OweO is right there really is no harm in flat out having a discussion about it and how you perceive it. If you're both adults and she just wants to be friends it's a one time deal not awkward after and something to laugh about later.
Posted by PairofDucks
Member since Jul 2016
4992 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:13 pm to
quote:

I would think that after 4 months, if there was something sexual then things would have already happened. Just be an adult about it, establish where the relationship is so that yall will be on the same page.


A concise and well-reasoned response.

I wonder who hacked into OweO's account.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
156293 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 8:58 pm to
You still here man? Been there before...it sucks when they become your legit friend and something screws it up. If you feel strong go for it. If you have doubts and need more signals from her end just keep doing what you're doing.
Posted by SelaTiger
Member since Aug 2016
18341 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 9:06 pm to
She probably thinks you're gay and only wants to be friends. If you grow some balls maybe you can change her mind.
Posted by Rockbrc
Attic
Member since Nov 2015
7996 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 9:12 pm to
Pounce
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8596 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 9:14 pm to
Tell her you want to take her out drinking one night as friends. You will be spraying dem guts by 2am baw.
Posted by G The Tiger Fan
Member since Apr 2015
104414 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 9:35 pm to
Have some drinks with her. Wait for her to loosen up. Then make your move!

Then wake up the next morning to cop sirens because she sobered up and realized she doesn't want a sexual relationship with a guy she friendzoned so she claims it was rape.
Posted by DoUrden
UnderDark
Member since Oct 2011
25965 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 9:36 pm to
quote:

the past four months


You should know the answer by now, sounds like it's a rainbow flag for you.
Posted by Carolina_Girl
South Cackalacky
Member since Apr 2012
23973 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 9:52 pm to
quote:

Hell of a run-on sentence, baw. That rivals some of mine.


I tried to read it as one long arse sentence and damn near needed oxygen by the end of it.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 10:06 pm to
Go ahead and ask her to prom. I mean, you don't have a date now. The worst that can happen is you won't have a date after asking
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56255 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 10:08 pm to
I think there are no totally platonic relationships between men and women....either one or the other generally wants to bone (even if they don't admit it to themselves)....
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 10:11 pm to
Friends can have sex too
Posted by tidalmouse
Whatsamotta U.
Member since Jan 2009
30706 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 10:14 pm to
2

Yeah,there was a lot of "me ad her" going on.

Here's my 2 cents.

If you like this girl.If you would like more than being her friend.You will regret it,maybe your whole life,if you don't find out whether or not she feels the same.

This post was edited on 12/2/16 at 10:26 pm
Posted by OhMy
Member since Jan 2016
834 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 10:19 pm to
For fricks sake man.
Nut up or shut up.
Posted by 6R12
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2005
8876 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 10:52 pm to
quote:

FHRITP
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Please fill me in, I'm old and have no clue.
Posted by LordSnow
Your Mom's House
Member since May 2011
5557 posts
Posted on 12/2/16 at 11:06 pm to
frick Her Right In The Pussy



But I think this guy should

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