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re: Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:24 pm to Giantkiller
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:24 pm to Giantkiller
Sounds legit but trust me when a woman knows it over they form a game plan on how much they will receive in child support and what they are taking. Myself at the time wanted what was best for the kids. WRONG Answer. Don't be the nice one because as soon as they don't get what they thought they were going to get. It gets ugly. Trust me. Talking the talk in this subject is easy but walking the walk SUCKS.
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Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:41 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
Divorced dad here. At first the kids gravitated to their mother which hurt really bad. But I stayed consistent and would not give in to the pressure of giving up my time w them.
The mother would try to interfere with my life and how I raised the kids at my house.
I stayed constant and consistent in terms of not allowing her to influence things at my home. Nor did I try to influence her house despite my severe disagreements w how she lives.
Now after 5 years, the kids see my home as the safe and peaceful home (as it has always been) whereas her house is chaos. They arrived at this point on their own. Kids HATE chaos and will gravitate towards safety and stability.
Keep the kids out of the fight. Isolate them away from the drama as much as possible. LOVE them when they are with you and communicate w them when they are gone.
No court in the world will take a child away from a dad who shows a record of stability and emotional support towards their child. It's more than a money game.
Do not let the threats of your ex stress you or your kids out! Most of the time the threats are BS and never actually followed up. Life is so much easier when you know how to put the ex on mute
The mother would try to interfere with my life and how I raised the kids at my house.
I stayed constant and consistent in terms of not allowing her to influence things at my home. Nor did I try to influence her house despite my severe disagreements w how she lives.
Now after 5 years, the kids see my home as the safe and peaceful home (as it has always been) whereas her house is chaos. They arrived at this point on their own. Kids HATE chaos and will gravitate towards safety and stability.
Keep the kids out of the fight. Isolate them away from the drama as much as possible. LOVE them when they are with you and communicate w them when they are gone.
No court in the world will take a child away from a dad who shows a record of stability and emotional support towards their child. It's more than a money game.
Do not let the threats of your ex stress you or your kids out! Most of the time the threats are BS and never actually followed up. Life is so much easier when you know how to put the ex on mute
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:55 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
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Trust me. Talking the talk in this subject is easy but walking the walk SUCKS.
Indeed. I should definitely say that I've never been in the OP's shoes and believe me - I count my blessings. Still, I know a ton of dudes that have - including my father-in-law. When my wife was a kid, her mom literally could have dragged him through the legal rapings. But when they split, he went above and beyond to let her know that he'd keep it in her favor. They raised some good kids out of it.
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