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re: Pregnant with no insurance, help
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:22 pm to tokenBoiler
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:22 pm to tokenBoiler
Some of you are assholes, I'm just trying to help.
She makes $31,800 and said the Medicaid office denied her. That's with one kid and one on the way. She didn't know the ex's insurance for her was dropped so the 60 day window is up.
She's trying to finalize the divorce but it's taking forever. Once that is done that qualifies for her to get insurance through the school, but there's no telling when it will be finalized. She is horrible at following up on stuff.
I need to know numbers, or advice. There has to be a way. Why would she be denied for Medicaid? And does anyone know how to expedite the divorce process? Once that's done everything will be ok, and the year LA requires had definitely lapsed, but how do I make the divorce go faster?
And yes it might be my kid. So fvck all of you calling her names and such, she really is a nice person. We need help and advise, I figured the OT could help.
She makes $31,800 and said the Medicaid office denied her. That's with one kid and one on the way. She didn't know the ex's insurance for her was dropped so the 60 day window is up.
She's trying to finalize the divorce but it's taking forever. Once that is done that qualifies for her to get insurance through the school, but there's no telling when it will be finalized. She is horrible at following up on stuff.
I need to know numbers, or advice. There has to be a way. Why would she be denied for Medicaid? And does anyone know how to expedite the divorce process? Once that's done everything will be ok, and the year LA requires had definitely lapsed, but how do I make the divorce go faster?
And yes it might be my kid. So fvck all of you calling her names and such, she really is a nice person. We need help and advise, I figured the OT could help.
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Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:30 pm to DavidTheGnome
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Why would she be denied for Medicaid?
Because she is still legally married.
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She is horrible at following up on stuff
Well that sounds like a personal problem on her end. She needs to get her shite together, her baby's health depends on it.
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:32 pm to DavidTheGnome
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And yes it might be my kid. So fvck all of you calling her names and such, she really is a nice person. We need help and advise, I figured the OT could help.
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:34 pm to DavidTheGnome
bet your wife will be ecstatic when she hears the good news
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:38 pm to DavidTheGnome
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And yes it might be my kid.
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:38 pm to DavidTheGnome
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And yes it might be my kid.
Get a paternity test now, you can get one while the kid is in the womb. I wouldnt go any further till you know it yours.
As for her not following up on stuff, tell her to grow up and be an adult. If shes not telling you whats holding up the divorce she is lying to you. She knows.
As for your bad decisions, please tell us she lied about being on birth control. If not you are an idiot for nutting in a girl your casually screwing. You made a very bad decision buddy. Your post history shows you already have two kids, so you do know how kids are made.
Your last resort can always be gathering all the other possible baby daddies and see if Maury wants to do a show about you.
This post was edited on 7/22/16 at 4:59 pm
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:49 pm to DavidTheGnome
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She didn't know the ex's insurance for her was dropped so the 60 day window is up.
He's not an ex at this point.
How far along is she in the pregnancy?
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She's trying to finalize the divorce but it's taking forever. Once that is done that qualifies for her to get insurance through the school, but there's no telling when it will be finalized. She is horrible at following up on stuff.
Does she have an attorney? If she's horrible on following up on things, that's her own fault. She may have created part of the problem, unfortunately.
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Why would she be denied for Medicaid?
She's married for one thing and she may make too much money.
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And does anyone know how to expedite the divorce process? Once that's done everything will be ok, and the year LA requires had definitely lapsed, but how do I make the divorce go faster?
If she doesn't have an attorney, she needs one. There's nothing you can do to make it go any faster.
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And yes it might be my kid.
It "might" be? This nice person isn't sure who all she was having sex with at the same time?
If you think it "might" be your child, start paying for some doc visits to take care of her and the child. It's a risk if you're not sure the child is yours, but there's a risk to the child's health if the baby is yours if you don't and you seem to like her a lot. When she's finally divorced, hopefully, she can get some insurance coverage of some sort
When she was dropped, was there no Cobra letter to her?
Posted on 7/22/16 at 4:58 pm to DavidTheGnome
Sounds like a case of not being able to help someone who can't help herself.
Is she under 26? Adopt her and put her on your insurance. Not sure what you expect. There are very few options and they've all been layed out for you/her. Sounds like there is a weak excuse for why each one won't work.
Loan her the money with a contract to pay you back. Help her pay without expecting repayment. Tell her to start sucking dick for money. Tell her to get a shmasmortion from the shmasmortion clinic, and then feel like a guilty failure the rest of her life.
Is she under 26? Adopt her and put her on your insurance. Not sure what you expect. There are very few options and they've all been layed out for you/her. Sounds like there is a weak excuse for why each one won't work.
Loan her the money with a contract to pay you back. Help her pay without expecting repayment. Tell her to start sucking dick for money. Tell her to get a shmasmortion from the shmasmortion clinic, and then feel like a guilty failure the rest of her life.
Posted on 7/22/16 at 5:04 pm to DavidTheGnome
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And yes it might be my kid.
Current husband's divorce attorney will have a field day with this.
Posted on 7/22/16 at 6:11 pm to DavidTheGnome
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Some of you are assholes, I'm just trying to help
No, she and the idiot she whored with are the irresponsible assholes. Her sort are what is wrong with this country. Illigitimacy and lack of responsibility are main factors in so many negative outcomes like poverty and crime.
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Once that's done everything will be ok
Nope. She's a screw up and the next problem is right around the corner.
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And yes it might be my kid.
Ah, and you're a screw up too. Nice job buddy. Handouts are on their way.
Posted on 7/23/16 at 1:15 am to DavidTheGnome
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She is horrible at following up on stuff.
Like birth control, good parenting, and personal responsibility?
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she really is a nice person
A nice person who got knocked up before think as dry in her divorce by some other dude making less than 40k with another kid already at home and no insurance?
Posted on 7/23/16 at 2:03 pm to DavidTheGnome
Read your post history. Saw you mentioned wood floors in your house. I have carpet but I've been saving up for wood. But the damn taxes are taking a chunk of my check. To pay for your kid, apparently. Cause once your baby mama has the kid, it'll end up on the dole.
Enjoy those wood floors we all helped pay for.
I don't mean to be rude but you're like 'oh I'm just trying to help this girl'. Like you didn't have any role in this. Should've pulled out if you can't handle the consequences. Of course the husband dropped her off insurance. I don't blame him. I wouldn't pay for someone else's kid unless I'm forced to through taxation. Seriously she must be something to look at for you to stick it in that much crazy. Can we all at least get a pic for our troubles of reading this thread and paying for your kid? I have no problems helping people get on their feet, but your posts talk about vacations, a split level house, etc. you aren't struggling. Ridiculous for you to milk the system (or try to) and be mad she was denied Medicaid.
Enjoy those wood floors we all helped pay for.
I don't mean to be rude but you're like 'oh I'm just trying to help this girl'. Like you didn't have any role in this. Should've pulled out if you can't handle the consequences. Of course the husband dropped her off insurance. I don't blame him. I wouldn't pay for someone else's kid unless I'm forced to through taxation. Seriously she must be something to look at for you to stick it in that much crazy. Can we all at least get a pic for our troubles of reading this thread and paying for your kid? I have no problems helping people get on their feet, but your posts talk about vacations, a split level house, etc. you aren't struggling. Ridiculous for you to milk the system (or try to) and be mad she was denied Medicaid.
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