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How Would You Handle This OT Trashy Story?

Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:49 pm
Posted by dabigfella
Member since Mar 2016
6687 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:49 pm
I hate that Im even mentioning this bc it reeks of trashiness but long story short my fiancee had a cousin whose 33 whose wife died unexpectedly on sunday. The cousin and his immediate family have no money so he called my fiancee who he talks to once every 4 or 5 months tops. He asked her to help pay for the funeral so I took the funeral home info and called and it was $3000 for cremation + 2 services. I paid for it no biggie I wanted to help out and it wasn't a ton of money.

Anyways fast forward to tonight, and the deceased girls family throws up a go fund me page to raise money for her final expenses and Im like WTF I paid for everything. I dont know her family or anything but one of my fiancees relatives sent us the link

No Im not leaving fiancee the family members are like 5 states away lol.

What would you do these bastards are raising money for something they didnt even pay for. Im having a Michael Browns dad "burn this bish down" moment right now
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
42315 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:50 pm to
You seem smart
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120786 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Just accept that they are trash. You will never see that $3000 again

Move on

Never speak to them again

How did she die?
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm
Posted by PatDyesPants
Loachapoka, AL
Member since Jan 2016
3403 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Pics of fiancee.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
22014 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Maybe they'll collect and pay you?
Posted by Bossier2323
Bossier CIty
Member since Sep 2014
1910 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
1. Quit acting like a pussy

2. Donate to his gofundme
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Wouldn't worry about it

You did a good thing paying for it. Your wife should definitely let you put it in her butt a few seconds though
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
29339 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm to
I'd call them out on it
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
31680 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm to
Whose whose whose. 3k no biggie, eh. We got a rich man over here.

Just frickin with you.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
143140 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:53 pm to
start a gofundme to pay your lawyer when you sue them
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:53 pm to
Keep your mouth shut and be skeptical of giving them money in the future.

Also, there are other expenses associated with death besides paying for cremation. You don't know all their financials.
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 9:55 pm
Posted by fillmoregandt
OTM
Member since Nov 2009
14368 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:54 pm to
Don't do anything about it. Just one of those things that karma will pay you back on later
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
66292 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:54 pm to
Let it go, subtle brag noted herein, and lose some weight or your trashy wife will be paying soon for another funeral.

There's actually nothing to "handle".

Just move on with your life.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:56 pm to
What kind of humble brag shite post is this?
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7367 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:58 pm to
Take possession of the ashes until you get your money back.
Posted by HeadyMurphey
Los Santos
Member since Jan 2008
17197 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 10:01 pm to
Do you post any non money related posts? You try way too hard man.
Posted by Rekrul
Member since Feb 2007
7996 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 10:01 pm to
Well you're already a methhead on paper, I'd suggest just leaving it alone to preserve what little decent reputation you have left. Good luck
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
135222 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 10:05 pm to
If they don't pay you back, be sure to let them know just how shitty they are as people.
Posted by munchman
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
10327 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 11:18 pm to
You "gave" the money with good intentions...leave it at that.

Let God deal with the rest.
Posted by MykTide
Member since Jul 2012
25528 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 11:42 pm to
quote:

so I took the funeral home info and called and it was $3000 for cremation + 2 services. I paid for it no biggie I wanted to help out and it wasn't a ton of money.


If it was truly "no biggie", why are you upset?
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