re: Question about child supprt for OT lawyers

The whole story is we have been divorced for 12 years. My son was 3 and daughter 7 when we divirced. I live close to my parents. When it was time for me to go back to work i could never find her, she would not answer phone. Too busy with dating etc. I did not want to rock the boat because my son never wanted to stay with her anyway. When daughter turned 18 she went to DA office and lied and said i was late on a payment. She paid 15 dollars and judge signed off and state got involved. But she got caught lying because she cashed check and state had to pay me back. Long story short i hire lawyer and we go to court and she has to admit she has not seen son except at ball games for clise to a yr. And still no ruling