re: The most evil women you have known

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It's pretty sad really, because I am left trying to create a not so crazy facade for my daughter and I am constantly coming up with excuses for her so that my daughter doesn't realize how shitty her mom is.

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You should stop making excuses, she'll figure it out anyway and then resent you for not being more truthful with her. You don't have come out and tell her every shitty thing her mom did, but don't feed her bullshite about it either. I speak from experience. I had 3 girls and a boy with my ex and all but one has chosen to live with me because they figured out on their own how shitty their mom is. The only one who stays with her now is our youngest daughter and I think as she gets older she's starting to see the same things her siblings saw. But anyway, good luck.