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re: How difficult are babies really

Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:36 am to
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:36 am to
Babies are great. Little kids are great.

When that girl gets her period...your life is OVER. fricking send them to boarding school til they are 21. They are crazy as hell.

We raised a boy and 3 girl children, and without a doubt the girls are harder.
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
18518 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:37 am to
Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Dr. Meg Meeker.

LINK

Read it and be prepared for what is to come. And be very afraid of the ages 12-19.
This post was edited on 7/31/14 at 10:39 am
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85530 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:38 am to
ell jr. is almost 9 months. The first 2 months were the toughest, but really, it's because you spend all that time adjusting and learning and not sleeping. Once we adjusted to him and he adjusted his sleeping, it's been pretty smooth.

He is, by far, the coolest person I know.

Congrats.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
32167 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:39 am to
its tough but a labor of love. prayers that you have a healthy little one.......the alternative can be earth-shattering.
Posted by DC RaiseHerBack
Member since Nov 2006
55445 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:42 am to
Yes, yes they are and although in some ways they get easier as they get older...they also get to be pains in the asses, stupid, and cost more money.

Some babies are easier than others as well as kids. Don't let it scare you though. You learn to adapt.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:45 am to
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It's a girl BTW.


Dibs.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
41091 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:45 am to
we rarely slept for the first year. Our boy has colic and rarely slept unless it was on us, or he just cried non stop. It was really fricking rough. My wife and I were at each others throats from frustration and lack of sleep. But he's almost 4 now, and he is the most amazing thing. The only problem now, is dealing with my own issues regarding him. I constantly have panic attacks thinking about bad things that could happen to him out in the world. That now keeps me up at night. It's only going to get worse as he gets older. I guess that's part of being a parent.
Posted by saltybulldog
MS Gulf Coast
Member since Aug 2007
1144 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 10:57 am to
quote:

We are expecting our first in September and putting nervous, scared, etc aside. How tough are the little guys/gals?


Congrats! They can be tough, but it has alot to do with your temperament and expectations. If you are uptight, nervous, and scared and/or if you think life will be the same and you can do/go as you please, things could be difficult. If however, you are laid back, enjoy babies and are willing to sacrifice certain things you were used to for the betterment of your child/family things will be great.

Being a parent is about being selfless and patient.

quote:

What am I in for in the first year?


Read 12 weeks to 12 hours of sleep. Have a plan for dealing with them and most importantly for the first year is to start and keep a schedule. With our first we learned that meals, naps, bathtime and bedtime schedule was critical. We were probably overkill but we really didnt vary the schedule my more than 5 minutes. Things went great.

We know have 4 and maintain control better than many parents with 1 or 2. That has alot to do with our willingness to be parents first. Oh and my wife is a control freak and very organized...and hot

quote:

It's a girl BTW.


Congrats. Little girls are the best for a father. Teenage girls...not so much so you better teach her how she needs to be treated.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103861 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:02 am to
difficult? not very. stressful and tiring? you betcha.
Posted by blue_morrison
Member since Jan 2013
5391 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:15 am to
Don't even worry about latex gloves because you're gonna be knee deep in shite
Posted by Bussemer
Heading South
Member since Dec 2007
2535 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:18 am to
Join Amazon Prime and set up diapers, wipes, formula, etc to come every month or so on their subscribe and save program. 20% off.

Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111719 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 12:22 pm to
quote:

What am I in for in the first year?
I have 3 year old twin boys, from day 1 it tends to get easier and easier as you go...but it ain't easy

After the initial 1st few months, it's not that it's hard, it's just very time consuming lol.
Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
5746 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 12:25 pm to
Piece of cake until they outnumber you and the wife. It starts getting interesting after that, especially if they're close together.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9819 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 12:45 pm to
Welcome to parenthood--best years of your life!
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98086 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 12:48 pm to
Babies seem easy enough but my wife takes care of the day to day stuff.
Posted by CurDog
Member since Jan 2007
28086 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 12:51 pm to
quote:

What am I in for in the first year?


I am not even sure where to begin. I have two girls, 17 and 2. From what I can remember of the oldest growing up, the baby is a chip off the ole block.

they were both very easy going, did not cry much but very emotional.
the first 6 months of life were not bad, just very tiresome.
everything after that is fairly easy, except when the oldest got to about 3rd grade. young girls are very cold, bitchy, and out right mean
now I am dealing with dating and driving with oldest and potty training with the youngest
Posted by ThatsAFactJack
East Coast
Member since Sep 2012
1565 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 1:27 pm to
Congrats.

I have a 3.5 yr old daughter. Greatest thing that ever happened to me. She is definitly Daddy's girl and I wouldn't want it any other way. She follows me around everywhere and gets into anything I am trying to do. At times it is aggravating in the moment, taking tools, losing screws, etc but take a breath and remember they are only young once. Enjoy every minute of it. hell I even enjoy painting her nails when she asks and I have learned how to braid, frenchbraid, pigtails and all sorts of hair crap.
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
Member since Oct 2007
160172 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 1:28 pm to
I'm terrified of changing a baby girl's diaper. My friend told me about how he had to clean shite of his daughter's vagina and it scarred me for life.
Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
54755 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 1:55 pm to
quote:

We are expecting our first in September and putting nervous, scared, etc aside. How tough are the little guys/gals?

What am I in for in the first year?

It's a girl BTW.


I have twin girls and a baby boy...the girls were unmitigated hell on wheels. The boy is chill.

I would think 1 baby, boy or girl, would be a piece of cake. Don't be afraid to take her out with you and do stuff. You really only have a window of about 6 months before going out with her becomes completely impossible.
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