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Have any of you lost close friends or family relationships over politics?

Posted on 3/7/26 at 1:39 am
Posted by cbtullis
Atlanta
Member since Apr 2004
6848 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 1:39 am
Serious question.
I have a couple friends lately that have truly just gone full blown crazy since Trump won again
I’m taking long term friends not just acquaintances.
People I’ve known close for 20 plus years. They were kinda middle of the road, but Trump has really cause them to go nuts.
It’s amazing that their whole life is surrounded by one guy and their emotions. I’m genuinely curious how they will be when he’s gone lol
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
20821 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 1:40 am to
Worse. Pretty sad really
Posted by RollingwiththeTide
Member since Oct 2020
6278 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 1:44 am to
Trump seems to cause a lot of people to lose it.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120179 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 1:45 am to
I did lose one who was American and we roomed together in Beijing. We were both libertarians and I enjoyed his company. Probably would have been a groomsman at my wedding if what I’m about to say didn’t happen.

But after China we both moved back to the States, and he moved to San Francisco. I got a sales territory where SF was a significant part of it and saw him roughly once every three months. I saw the city radically change him over time until the point he admitted to me he was a full blown communist, which blew my mind since he saw the exact same shite I did living in China.

He then said in 2020 that David Dorn (the cop that was killed in Minneapolis) deserved to get shot and killed because his job was enforcing white supremacy, and I cut him off for that. He had turned to evil.

And there are a few more acquaintances than friends that I know that openly celebrated Charlie getting killed and I’ve cut them off as well.
This post was edited on 3/7/26 at 1:47 am
Posted by Whodat4300
Tennessee
Member since Jul 2020
1240 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 1:57 am to
Yes. My brother, a few others. They’re eaten up with TDS and I’m evil as I’m an independent Trump supporter.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
76702 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:04 am to
No. I don’t bring it up at all. I have one close friend that I’ve known for almost 20 years that’s a hard core liberal. If the subject ever comes up, I just lie and say I agree with whatever he thinks. If people are going to act like children and cut people out of their lives over politics, then I’ll treat them like a child and lie to them like we do about Santa Clause being real.
Posted by cbtullis
Atlanta
Member since Apr 2004
6848 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:07 am to
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He then said in 2020 that David Dorn (the cop that was killed in Minneapolis) deserved to get shot and killed because his job was enforcing white supremacy, and I cut him off for that. He had turned to evil.


Yeah….i understand this as one of the friends I was talking about said Charlie Kirk was a nazi and maybe didn’t deserve to be murdered but he was a piece of shite
Posted by riccoar
Arkansas
Member since Mar 2006
4974 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:10 am to
Not friends. Had some family block me on social media cause I would laugh emoji every time they posted something on the two dumbasses ICE rightly shot
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120179 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:12 am to
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I have one close friend that I’ve known for almost 20 years that’s a hard core liberal. If the subject ever comes up, I just lie and say I agree with whatever he thinks.


Is he actually your friend if you can’t bring that up and have to lie to him? I have liberal friends and we’ll talk some shite and hug it out in the end. I don’t think you should lie to a friend. You can tell him you don’t want to talk politics, but don’t lie.
Posted by Rza32
Member since Nov 2008
4445 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:14 am to
No, I’m not friends with Liberals.
Posted by tigersandsaints
Member since Dec 2005
10273 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:20 am to
Lost eh, strained yes. My BIL. The wife (No pics) and I are closing in on 25 years of marriage and me and the BIL have always gotten along great. He's very to the left and when I say to the left I mean this is the only person I've ever known who is retiring and MOVING to Los Angeles. Sadly though this 2nd Trump presidency has completely broken him. Legit every thing is Trumps fault.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120179 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:26 am to
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i understand this as one of the friends I was talking about said Charlie Kirk was a nazi and maybe didn’t deserve to be murdered but he was a piece of shite


There were at least five people on my Instagram feed that said Charlie deserved to be murdered and it’s a good thing he’s dead. One of them was a nurse that I had two dates with back in the day and I highly considered contacting her employer about it.

Another is one of my best friend’s best friends and it’s come to the point where I’ve told my actual friend to tell me if his friend is around because I don’t want to be there if he is. And my friend is more right wing than I am, and he agrees with me that if our acquaintance found out randomly that he died and only knew about the political opinions of his friend and nothing else that he’d say he deserved to die.

And here’s also the hilarious thing: this scumbag and his “girl friend” (a girl who is his friend that he’s not dating) were kicked out of a friend group for gloating about Charlie being assassinated and then were bitching at me and my actual friend that no one wants to hang out with them anymore.

He bitches that they’re mostly Democrats themselves and doesn’t understand why they no longer respond to their texts. I tell him that “Yeah, because they’re not evil and don’t simply disagree with you on tax policy. You disagree with them on the fact that anyone who disagrees with you doesn’t deserve oxygen.” And I did say that to him two months ago and haven’t seen him since. I’m sure I’ll bump into him sometime and it may become hostile.
This post was edited on 3/7/26 at 2:29 am
Posted by YumYum Sauce
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
9498 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:26 am to
I've blocked/removed several friends wives the past year.

The husband's pretend to be liberal adjacent to their wives in public but every one of them voted for trump.

The women arent serious people and live far too comfortably imo. Theyre all on pills and winos, and support the current thing. Just boring miserable people.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
76702 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:27 am to
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Is he actually your friend if you can’t bring that up and have to lie to him? I have liberal friends and we’ll talk some shite and hug it out in the end. I don’t think you should lie to a friend. You can tell him you don’t want to talk politics, but don’t lie.
He is. And politics is the only thing I lie to him about. It rarely even comes up enough that it’s an issue. I think the last time we had a discussion about it was right after the election. He’s done the whole “if you’re a Trump supporter then unfriend me and lose my number”.

I just roll my eyes and keep going on about my life. And I knowing that he, like a child, will have his little tantrum and calm down.
This post was edited on 3/7/26 at 2:30 am
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120179 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:31 am to
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He is.


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He’s done the whole “if you’re a Trump supporter then unfriend me and lose my number”.


I mean…

Posted by AlterEd
Cydonia, Mars
Member since Dec 2024
7760 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:32 am to
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No. I don’t bring it up at all. I have one close friend that I’ve known for almost 20 years that’s a hard core liberal. If the subject ever comes up, I just lie and say I agree with whatever he thinks. If people are going to act like children and cut people out of their lives over politics, then I’ll treat them like a child and lie to them like we do about Santa Clause being real.


This is a bitch-made post. Essentially what you're saying is that you don't stand your ground.

Personally, I've lost a few. I don't worry about it. I'm going to continue speaking truth to power the same way I have since long before Trump got into office. Literally the only difference in my life is that TDS has infected some folks to the point where those people and I no longer can even be friendly. And that's ok, because in the end they will see the truth and those relationships will be restored. Hopefully.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
76702 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:33 am to
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This is a bitch-made post. Essentially what you're saying is that you don't stand your ground.
Meh. Makes my life easier.
Posted by BHTiger
Charleston
Member since Dec 2017
8912 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:36 am to
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If the subject ever comes up, I just lie and say I agree with whatever he thinks


You would lie to keep the peace? Just to keep a friend?

The Marxist have won.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120179 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:37 am to
Ehh, it still hurts. I’m extremely social and any friends that I care to keep up with I pretty much have. But I do mourn the loss of a soul. It did make me sad to lose that friend, but I do carefully understand evil and can’t have that a part of my life.

Right vs Left is an illusion to keep you separated from your fellow man. It is Good vs Evil, and there are just as many both on the Right and the Left. Most people are good, but you will occasionally run into evil. Look for how they treat their “inferiors” and those who have a different worldview. I’m a sarcastic a-hole, but always remember that your neighbor went through some shite that you didn’t and be cognizant of that.
Posted by AlterEd
Cydonia, Mars
Member since Dec 2024
7760 posts
Posted on 3/7/26 at 2:46 am to
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Ehh, it still hurts.


Sure. But lots of shite hurts. I cannot and will not allow the loss of a relationship to a dumb shite hurt me worse than, say, losing a loved one to cancer. Not when they're still kicking and just being a dumb arse, and the loved one was lost to cancer due to this same necrotic fricking bullshite that these other people literally cannot see because they have OMB blinders on and don't realize that the same people trying to remove Trump are the ones who are responsible for the 400% rise in cancer cases we see since 2020.

I can try to tell them, but if they can't see it, frick them. They are still healthy. They are still spewing hate. If they're too fricking ignorant to actually see the evil that surrounds us, frick them.

On a different level though, I still love them. And when this is over we can pick back up where we left off. No harm, no foul. So long as they see what actually fricking happened. I don't even need an apology. Just recognition on their part.

ETA: that was just an example, by the way. But I'm trying to impress how serious their ignorance is.
This post was edited on 3/7/26 at 2:48 am
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