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What's your best Mid-life guy advice?

Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:13 pm
Posted by 4Bagger
Member since Jan 2025
198 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:13 pm
I suggest finding simple, inexpensive, social hobbies because you never know who you'll meet.

For me, I found playing Cornhole by chance and have met more people through local tournaments (Scoreholio app) than I could have never imagined. Most could never imagine the weekly $10 blind draw tournaments that happen in their area.

It has been life changing for me for more than one reason.

Just to clarify, I'm happily married with wonderful kids.
This post was edited on 3/7/25 at 10:50 pm
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
18155 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:16 pm to
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met more people through local tournaments (Scoreholio app)


lol weird
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
10898 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:17 pm to
Stay single and spend time with your kids.
Posted by RIPMachoMan
Member since Jun 2011
7191 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:18 pm to
You could choose worse hobbies imo
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
129924 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:21 pm to
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Stay single and spend time with your kids.


How does one have kids while staying single?


Just knocking up random broads?

Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
19814 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:21 pm to
quote:

Stay single and spend time with your kids.


Lol
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
69057 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:22 pm to
Don't be fat
Posted by James11111
Walnut Creek, Ca
Member since Jul 2020
5254 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:24 pm to
quote:

What's your best Mid-life guy advice?


Go to Vegas and get involved with cartel strippers.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
3644 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:31 pm to
I hang out with other mid life to elderly guys on tigerdroppings
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
2229 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:33 pm to
Cornhole?

That’s your answer to a fulfilling and rewarding life?

This has to be a joke.
Posted by kennypowers
AR
Member since Mar 2009
588 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:34 pm to
Life is too short to manage the feelings and emotions of those that can't manage their own.
Posted by MSUDawg98
Ravens Flock
Member since Jan 2018
11568 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:40 pm to
My youngest just turned 18 and I'm inching closer to 50. It seems like life goes one of two ways. Your marriage gets better and you start adding things that you weren't able to afford in your 20s OR you are divorced/miserable and at a point in your life where you need to figure out how you want to live the back 9 in your life.

I'm in the first category. No mortgage payment, we have excess household income, and we have more date nights/overnight trips than we've ever had. The biggest thing we come close to arguing about is our dogs. Now in my 30s we argued a ton. Hell, we had some nuclear blowups in our first 3 years of marriage.

We've been married for longer than both of our parents combined. So I see both sides. The one thing that is universal is spend as much time as possible with your kids. I look at pictures and wish I could have more time with them at those stages. If you've got the means, travel and spend the money on things you like. If I was single I'd be traveling quite a bit. Luckily my wife enjoys going to new stadiums for football games (1/yr)... I would be going to 6-8/yr if it was up to me alone.
Posted by 4Bagger
Member since Jan 2025
198 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:41 pm to
No, it's an example of a simple, competitive, inexpensive activity/hobby that changed my routine in life for the better. And, yes, I still spend most of my time with my wife and kids.
Posted by NawlinsTiger9
Where the mongooses roam
Member since Jan 2009
37279 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:43 pm to
There are limited things you can control and even less that really matter. Time is your only real currency. Act accordingly.
Posted by 4Bagger
Member since Jan 2025
198 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:44 pm to
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lol weird


It's an app that coordinates tournaments like bowling, darts, pool, Cornhole....
Posted by 4Bagger
Member since Jan 2025
198 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:46 pm to
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The one thing that is universal is spend as much time as possible with your kids. I look at pictures and wish I could have more time with them at those stages


Excellent advice
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
9995 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 10:56 pm to
Go to the gym, don't be a bitch. The social clubs like you're in is what we tried to use to get laid after college in places like ATL.

Say you like loading mags, it's therapeutic. You'll make a lot of friends quickly. They pay you in beer to stand there and talk man shite while you just go home with your fingers stinking of copper. You could get accused of finger blasting someone at that time of the month, of course.

Seriously, you have a limited window to develop or maintain hobbies that don't involve your wife telling you what to do. You know, for the kids, of course. Claim some land, somewhere. Play Warhammer or Monopoly or Beer Trivia every other week, but plant a flag.
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
45898 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 11:04 pm to
Find a good hobby
Posted by jflsufan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Mar 2013
4734 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 11:11 pm to
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What's your best Mid-life guy advice?


There are three rules that I live by: never get less than twelve hours sleep; never play cards with a guy who has the same first name as a city; and never get involved with a woman with a tattoo of a dagger on her body. You do those 3 things and everything else is cream cheese.
Posted by POTUS2024
Member since Nov 2022
20943 posts
Posted on 3/7/25 at 11:15 pm to
Do a bunch of steroids. Buy a Corvette. Go to the local 18+ club.
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