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Ever witnessed a tragic death?
Posted on 8/17/24 at 11:55 pm
Posted on 8/17/24 at 11:55 pm
Apologies for being a downer and bringing up a morbid topic.
I was hanging out with some friends on a deck earlier, just enjoying the weather. The house sits on a corner of a 4 way intersection, where it’s a 2 way stop. A truck stopped at the intersection and pulled out, but was violently t-boned on the drivers side. The driver of the truck was ejected and somehow the truck rolled over him.
It was less than 100 feet away from us, and by the time we got there he was already having death rattles. One of the friends is a nurse and tried to keep him alive but by the time Lifeflight landed he was already gone.
I’ve seen people die “quickly”, but this is the first time I’ve seen someone actively pass away. The worst part is, his wife was driving behind him. I’m okay with witnessing what happened, but the sound of her screams is what has stuck with me. There was nothing anyone could do for the guy and all we could do for the wife was hold her/be there for her to grieve. How do you forget that sound of a guttural scream?
ETA: it’s a very rural area, and it took 10 minutes for any emergency services to show up. It’s not in any “city” jurisdiction, and the first to arrive was a state trooper. By the time Lifeflight landed, 30 minutes had gone by. I don’t know if he could have been helped if we were in a more urban location.
I was hanging out with some friends on a deck earlier, just enjoying the weather. The house sits on a corner of a 4 way intersection, where it’s a 2 way stop. A truck stopped at the intersection and pulled out, but was violently t-boned on the drivers side. The driver of the truck was ejected and somehow the truck rolled over him.
It was less than 100 feet away from us, and by the time we got there he was already having death rattles. One of the friends is a nurse and tried to keep him alive but by the time Lifeflight landed he was already gone.
I’ve seen people die “quickly”, but this is the first time I’ve seen someone actively pass away. The worst part is, his wife was driving behind him. I’m okay with witnessing what happened, but the sound of her screams is what has stuck with me. There was nothing anyone could do for the guy and all we could do for the wife was hold her/be there for her to grieve. How do you forget that sound of a guttural scream?
ETA: it’s a very rural area, and it took 10 minutes for any emergency services to show up. It’s not in any “city” jurisdiction, and the first to arrive was a state trooper. By the time Lifeflight landed, 30 minutes had gone by. I don’t know if he could have been helped if we were in a more urban location.
This post was edited on 8/18/24 at 12:09 am
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:02 am to br_1560
There’s extremely sad. Sorry you had to witness that.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:09 am to br_1560
Yeah that’s rough with wife having to see it. I hope he at least a little older and had kids, to have someone to carry on for him.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:12 am to br_1560
Damn dude. It’s scary to know how quickly your time can be up. That poor wife - just awful.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:12 am to Lsutigerturner
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Yeah that’s rough with wife having to see it. I hope he at least a little older and had kids, to have someone to carry on for him.
He was a bit older, probably mid to late 60’s, if I had to do a rough guess by his appearance.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:19 am to GeorgeTheGreek
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Damn dude. It’s scary to know how quickly your time can be up. That poor wife - just awful.
I don’t know if he didn’t see the car until it was too late after he decided to pull into the intersection, or if he thought he could beat the car. He spun his tires, because heard the loose gravel being thrown first then saw him spinning tires, other car tried to slam on the breaks but it was too late. Everything in like…5 seconds, but seems like it was a full minute in my memory.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:28 am to br_1560
Back in the 90’s we watched a guy jump off the roof of the oxygen zone hotel in PCB aiming for the pool. He missed. It was awful.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:33 am to br_1560
It’s a shock to your system. At least yall tried to help that man and did everything you could do. Talk about it with someone, try to process it.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 12:44 am to IamNotaRobot
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It’s a shock to your system. At least yall tried to help that man and did everything you could do. Talk about it with someone, try to process it.
Yea, we kinda debriefed for 30 minutes afterwards and ended the hang out. The scream immediately brought back a memory I had completely forgotten about and haven’t thought of in years. I was at Dekalb County lake as a preteen, and a child started choking on some kind of food. The mom had the exact same scream, but someone gave the Heimlich maneuver and the child was fine. Just…the sound.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 1:00 am to br_1560
I saw an expedition blow a tire on I-10 eastbound around gramercy and flip about 3 times throwing bodies and dust.
Called it in to LSP (I was driving westbound) and they called me back asking for my recollection then said 8 people died in the rollover.
This was probably 2003 or so.
Called it in to LSP (I was driving westbound) and they called me back asking for my recollection then said 8 people died in the rollover.
This was probably 2003 or so.
This post was edited on 8/18/24 at 1:01 am
Posted on 8/18/24 at 2:34 am to RedFoxx
Watched a guy jump off an 11 story dorm building (Nielson Dorm) at Tech my freshman year -fall of 1985
Posted on 8/18/24 at 4:28 am to slaughlin
Saw a car pull out in front of a biker and he was toast. Flew 100 feet. Bad day all around.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 4:39 am to br_1560
I saw a man walk into the tail rotor of a 212 helicopter.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 5:39 am to br_1560
I have made reference in here before that my dad was a truck driver. Saw two deaths while in trips with him.
I was about 10 y/o. We were at a roofing plant backed up to loading dock. My dad was in dispatch office I was sitting just outside on a bench watching a fellow tarp down a load. It was a double stack load of pallets if felt paper. He slipped and fell off the top of the trailer and landed head first on crown of his head on pavement. Probably about 12 feet. Sounded like a watermelon busting on concrete. I was maybe 15-20 feet away. As soon as he hit he immediately sat straight up, looked at me and said “ What happened” then laid back down and went unconscious. Started spasms and was dead by time ambulance showed up. I remeber the skin being split from top of head all the way to tip if his nose.
When I was 15 we were up on east coast on interstate. We are cruising along in the right hand lane. Up ahead there was this hatch back car broke down and off the shoulder of the left lane. A pick up truck ahead of us swerved off the road and hit the rear right side of the hatch back. It went up over and basically sheared off the top of the car then went in its side and rolled a few times. Another car behind him ending up running into the pick up as well. My dad locked up the brakes and pulled over on the right side. We both hopped out to go help. My dad ran over to check on the pick up driver, who was pretty banged up but still alive. He was an older man who had fallen asleep while driving. I ran over to the hatchback. The two passengers in the front were very shook up with a few minor injuries but miraculously that was it. However there had been a guy sitting in the rear right side of car. When the truck shear off the roof it had decapitated him. It was just his body sitting in the seat. Blood was everywhere. I was pretty shook up from the sight of it all.
I was about 10 y/o. We were at a roofing plant backed up to loading dock. My dad was in dispatch office I was sitting just outside on a bench watching a fellow tarp down a load. It was a double stack load of pallets if felt paper. He slipped and fell off the top of the trailer and landed head first on crown of his head on pavement. Probably about 12 feet. Sounded like a watermelon busting on concrete. I was maybe 15-20 feet away. As soon as he hit he immediately sat straight up, looked at me and said “ What happened” then laid back down and went unconscious. Started spasms and was dead by time ambulance showed up. I remeber the skin being split from top of head all the way to tip if his nose.
When I was 15 we were up on east coast on interstate. We are cruising along in the right hand lane. Up ahead there was this hatch back car broke down and off the shoulder of the left lane. A pick up truck ahead of us swerved off the road and hit the rear right side of the hatch back. It went up over and basically sheared off the top of the car then went in its side and rolled a few times. Another car behind him ending up running into the pick up as well. My dad locked up the brakes and pulled over on the right side. We both hopped out to go help. My dad ran over to check on the pick up driver, who was pretty banged up but still alive. He was an older man who had fallen asleep while driving. I ran over to the hatchback. The two passengers in the front were very shook up with a few minor injuries but miraculously that was it. However there had been a guy sitting in the rear right side of car. When the truck shear off the roof it had decapitated him. It was just his body sitting in the seat. Blood was everywhere. I was pretty shook up from the sight of it all.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 5:53 am to br_1560
Yes and it was 100% preventable and should have never happened.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 6:04 am to br_1560
I lived in Asia for over 10 years, and I saw more than my fair share of horrible traffic accidents. I was in China when cars were first getting popular, and they didn’t mingle well with the millions of bicycles on the streets. In Taipei and Bangkok families of 4 and 5 would ride one scooter, and the carnage after one of those scooters got hit by a speeding taxi would make you sick. In Hong Kong people from the mainland would get to the city for the first time and get run over because of the English traffic rules. They would walk up to cross a street and look left for traffic rather than right. In Japan businessmen would drop dead in the subway or on the platform. The name for the cause of death is death by working too much.
I have never witnessed a single fatality in the US or in Europe, but Asia… damn.
I have never witnessed a single fatality in the US or in Europe, but Asia… damn.
Posted on 8/18/24 at 6:30 am to br_1560
Scruffy works in a Peds ER, so, yes.
One of the worst sounds on planet earth is the sound of a mother who lost a child.
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the sound of her screams is what has stuck with me.
One of the worst sounds on planet earth is the sound of a mother who lost a child.
quote:You don’t.
How do you forget that sound of a guttural scream?
Posted on 8/18/24 at 6:48 am to br_1560
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This post was edited on 8/18/24 at 10:09 am
Posted on 8/18/24 at 6:49 am to br_1560
Videoed a guy drown on one of those jet boards you hook up to a jet ski and go flying in the air. We and one other group of people were sitting on the kayak launch beach at Tybee (back river). The other group was the guy’s friends. We saw him go under and was waiting for him. To pop back up. We assumed everything was ok because his friends were just casually watching and sort of milling around.
I finally went over and asked if I could help and then all hell broke loose. Emergency vehicles, divers etc. it’s a swift tidal current so really dangerous to just go jumping in after him.
We had to give a deposition in the lawsuit and interviews to cops. He left behind a little girl. Freaking terrible.
I finally went over and asked if I could help and then all hell broke loose. Emergency vehicles, divers etc. it’s a swift tidal current so really dangerous to just go jumping in after him.
We had to give a deposition in the lawsuit and interviews to cops. He left behind a little girl. Freaking terrible.
This post was edited on 8/18/24 at 9:20 am
Posted on 8/18/24 at 6:51 am to br_1560
Friend and I were gassing up his car at a Circle K late one night and saw a car’s headlights rolling down a big ravine about 150 yards down the street. We ran over there, the car is a black mid-80’s Camaro right side up but heavily damaged, still running, Def Leppard’s Photograph cranked up on the stereo. Girl was in the passenger seat, stunned - awake but unresponsive. My friend ran back to the Circle K to call police and I stayed at the scene as some others who witnessed it begin arriving. I’m walking back up the ravine and almost tripped over a guy, he got ejected from the car and was bleeding out his eyes, ears, mouth and nose. He was knocked out, breathing gurgling noises, face all swollen up, we were talking about what do we do, some said don’t move him so we didn’t, within a few minutes his head was swelled up like a basketball. He took a big gurgly breath like he had suddenly woke up but just exhaled and that was it.
I found out later that night they were leaving a massive beer kegger party my friend and I were at earlier. I had assumed they went to our HS, but the guy was my chemistry lab partner the prior year. The girl was a grade below me, she missed the rest of the school year but healed up and was fine.
Some of us took flowers to his mom’s house after the funeral, I’ll never forget wondering how it must feel for her. She was still in shock and none of our dumb asses knew what to say. Sad deal.
I found out later that night they were leaving a massive beer kegger party my friend and I were at earlier. I had assumed they went to our HS, but the guy was my chemistry lab partner the prior year. The girl was a grade below me, she missed the rest of the school year but healed up and was fine.
Some of us took flowers to his mom’s house after the funeral, I’ll never forget wondering how it must feel for her. She was still in shock and none of our dumb asses knew what to say. Sad deal.
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