re: 12 Year Old Girl with BPD

Prayers for you and your family...my adult daughter was diagnosed at 14 with BPD...bumpy road but worth it. Find a therapist that specializes in BPD in adolescents...that is important. Secondly, you may consider family therapy because the events don't occur in a vacuum...lastly, medication and routine are all important. You will be able to determine when she is in her mood cycles...It's important that you and your SO can anticipate the cycle and be able to soften the landing. It is so difficult to navigate, sometimes painfully so...but it's evident that you love your daughter and honestly, that love will get you to the other side. Blessings and prayers your way, my friend. Be safe...take care.