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re: Divorce Board Spin-Off: If you have been married, why did you get married?

Posted on 2/23/24 at 4:27 pm to
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Posted on 2/23/24 at 4:27 pm to
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Even if you feel like the "facts" are on your side


Another thing is that, a significant amount of the time (but certainly not ALL the time), the facts don't even really matter.

Being frame by frame accurate about the events leading up to an argument or hurt feelings is not really that helpful in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you trust the person sufficiently, you should realize that if they say "when you did X or you said Y, that pissed me off" it doesn't REALLY matter if their recounting of X or Y is a little off from what you remember.

If you don't trust them enough to believe they are genuinely upset/hurt by what they say they are and are just making shite up, then the solution is to not marry be married to that person.
This post was edited on 2/23/24 at 4:34 pm
Posted by WhiteRussianDude
Member since Feb 2023
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Posted on 2/23/24 at 10:01 pm to
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Another thing is that, a significant amount of the time (but certainly not ALL the time), the facts don't even really matter. Being frame by frame accurate about the events leading up to an argument or hurt feelings is not really that helpful in maintaining a healthy relationship.



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