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know you are joking, but sadly, many men in a relationship see their wives as subservient. There is a reason why Jody exists, and it's because "I don't liked, I don't feel loved, or I don't feel respected" rears its ugly head and if someone other than the spouse pays attention and gives that person the reason to believe they are heard, valued, respected, and appreciated, the creation of an extra-marital affair starts.

You literally said in another post not to ask questions, be her husband.

These therapists twists y’all’s minds. It’s all so contradictory.

I was dating a girl that was miserable every time after seeing her therapists. It’s crazy how her mood would change from earlier in the day to after her session. The bitch was probably telling her shite was wrong with her that put her down.

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Posted by Will Cover

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Posted on 12/7/23 at 2:01 pm to dgnx6

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dgnx6

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You literally said in another post not to ask questions, be her husband.

These therapists twists y’all’s minds. It’s all so contradictory.

Allow me to clarify.

If and when your spouse comes to you and wants to communicate, listen, and don't attack --- and do not defend yourself. If you ask questions, it's not to agitate. If you ask a question, it's not to get an argument going. If you ask a question, it's genuinely to try and understand what the other person is thinking or feeling.

Many of us either don't truly listen to understand ... we listen to reply, or we defend, which doesn't help either. And the questions that we can ask are sometimes attacking.

The truth is, many people, both men and women, suck at communicating, collaborating, which leads to a lack of connection --- or disconnection, "I don't feel liked, loved, or respected," which is another way saying, "I don't feel valued, heard, or appreciated."

This post was edited on 12/7/23 at 2:04 pm

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