re: Are Young Men Truly Lost?

I will say this. As an experiment I have a few days left on a popular dating app. In the last two days I have swiped right to just over 500 women each day (and before you say how long does that take, give or take 5 - 10 minutes, not long).

Statistically I should get at least 10 matches doing that even if I'm not that attractive. 10 matches out of 1,000 is 1%. If I can't even get that then I know online dating is largely hopeless.

For the matches I get I'm going to go all chad (hate doing it but to use an incel term) and just cut straight to the case. I'm going to ask them if they want to meet up and just do a one night stand.

Like many of you here have said I have to get this drought off my back. Plus I've played nice guy for too long on these apps and in real life and it's gotten me no where. While it may seem like an ahole move to make it's going to be interesting to see if I have any success with this strategy.

Like some of you have said. With so many men dropping out of the dating scene that alone should increase my odds.

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You all do realize these fantasies aren't about real people right? It's typically about animated video game characters or at worst superheroines in a TV show or movie. We're not talking about real woman getting humiliated or beat up here. And heck a lot of times the ryona shots are fictional women beating up other fictional women. More and more of it from what I've heard is actually becoming AI generated.

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Look..you might be a great guy…but the first thing *I* think when I read this is “what kind of a weirdo watches and fantasizes about THIS shite” …. and Im an old married guy who seen some petty raunchy stuff in my time. What do you think a woman is going to think? It’s the dating equivalent of telling her you like to pull the wings off bugs and torture puppies.

The other more serious question is what is going on in your head to where you enjoy animated sexual humiliation and does that help your psyche when it comes to interacting with women? Not criticizing you as we’ve all gone to some dark places but walking it back from that kind of stuff and porn in general can’t hurt.

You only learn to interact with women by interacting with women. Get some friends and go out one night and talk shite to everyone at the bar (without getting your arse kicked). Don’t hit on them…just talk shite. You need some reps.