re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage

Now you Ol Boys might remember why Chicken pays me the big bucks to liven up these boring threads. I've been away so long things got stale. Glad to wake you ladies up.

To anyone who says I am generalizing. Mea Culpa. Of course, I'm generalizing, and I did note the existence of your Unicorn wife that you were successfully able to find in the wild. She's all that, and a bag of chips, your equal and probably superior, in every way. I applaud you Unicorn- couples.

Shame on anybody that would take something as beautiful as his daughter wearing his t shirt or sleeping with his pillows as scurrilous. It's beautiful and a testament to the beauty of the father-daughter bond. I'd wish every father could have that.

SFP- congenitally flaccid passive aggressiveness noted. But at least admit that I have NEVER blamed anything here on my ex. In fact, I've consistently done the opposite. She was a FINE mother, loving and supportive beyond my expectations.

How old are you Oilfield? And how long has your marriage lasted? And without getting personal or projecting, dispense some advice. I'd love to hear the wisdom you are sure to dispense; a little optimism to counter my realism, as it were...