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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20

Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:22 pm to
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39656 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:22 pm to
Just realize she is a whore. She fooled you thinking she only had a couple dozen cocks inside her before you married her.
Posted by gobuxgo5
Member since Nov 2012
10032 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:26 pm to
I know a good sand guy. True love is hard to find for anyone. Those who do, never take an early flight home from San Diego.
Posted by FenrirTheBeard
NOLA
Member since Jun 2012
6441 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:26 pm to
Call 988 ASAP. It’s a crisis hotline. Take care of yourself
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
46971 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:28 pm to
Maybe not today, tomorrow or next week but things will get better.
Now is the time to find a new hobby, travel, do something you’ve always wanted.
Honestly one of the things that helped me after a long relationship ended was volunteering at an animal shelter.
The key is to keep yourself active, no time to dwell on the bad things.
Posted by MrSpock
Member since Sep 2015
4378 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:29 pm to
quote:

I know I’m a buzzkill. Nobody wants to be around me.



You've lost your center. Learn to be a mountain. Mountains endure through the harshest of conditions from storms to the scorching sun. You should cultivate resilience in the face of your new challenges.

Resilience doesn't mean suppressing emotions, but rather acknowledging your difficulties while finding healthy ways to overcome them.

Ie. Eat meat, lift heavy weights and go for walks.
Posted by BigBinBR
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2023
4505 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:29 pm to
quote:

I know I’m a buzzkill. Nobody wants to be around me.

I know it’s easier said than done, but you have to break yourself out of that.

Visit friends and family and actually be there in the moment with them. If you start feeling down then politely excuse yourself and leave. Eventually you will be out of your funk, but you at least won’t have to be alone until you aren’t depressed.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
204093 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:33 pm to
Come on man…. You may not think this now, but life is NOT over… gif put you on this earth for a reason… I say go to church… try to mingle with new people.
Posted by Hook Em Horns
350000 posts
Member since Sep 2010
15154 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:36 pm to
Goddamn for real. Stop being a pussy and go live.
Posted by tankyank13
NOLA
Member since Nov 2012
7731 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:36 pm to
It’s gets easier bro. Stay strong.
You’re grieving, and it’s normal.
The pain will begin to subside, slowly.
Allow time to heal.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
25569 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:38 pm to
quote:

Allow time to heal.


My new fear is that I won’t heal.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38685 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:39 pm to
Get off your sofa and TD on a Friday night and go out. Sitting around moping won’t help.
Posted by ShipperJosh
Cincinnati, OH
Member since Sep 2020
71 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:42 pm to
Take it from someone that’s been in your shoes.. This is actually some really sound advice bro..
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:42 pm to
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My new fear is that I won’t heal.


You will never heal. It’s been 11 years for me and not a day goes by I don’t think of her. Only by the grace of god and my parents I haven’t put a bullet in my head. Once my parents pass I’ll probably bow out. You’ll never get over her despite what all these douchebags say. fricking randoms are great…for the night

Drinking is the worst thing you can do by the way
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
10759 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:42 pm to
Allow time to heal.


My new fear is that I won’t heal.
——
Seriously you will.
But true hurt will take about 2 years to get over it. Just how it is.
I could hardly get anyone to hang with me for a good while. I’d go to the movies and watch 2 in a row.
. Savor the time with your boys Run down old friends and family. Stay busy
This post was edited on 8/25/23 at 9:47 pm
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
204093 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:43 pm to
DO NOT let her win… I doubt she cares about what you are going through right now… and if she is a vindictive type person I’m sure she has an idea about how you are struggling, and she is laughing at you.
Posted by 7thWardTo314
Member since May 2017
1287 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:48 pm to
quote:

Posted byMessageWalt OReilly


Seek help. Seriously. Seek out some help.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:51 pm to
My help is the good Lord

A therapist wouldn’t do shite except prescribe me a bunch of pills so I can go about life numb. I deal with the pain

Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80522 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:51 pm to
quote:

You will never heal. It’s been 11 years for me and not a day goes by I don’t think of her. Only by the grace of god and my parents I haven’t put a bullet in my head. Once my parents pass I’ll probably bow out. You’ll never get over her despite what all these douchebags say. fricking randoms are great…for the night

Drinking is the worst thing you can do by the way


Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28937 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:52 pm to
Why? You could change it so easily. Wake up and new look at everything and move forward.

You just have to fricking DO IT.
Posted by Landmass
Member since Jun 2013
18227 posts
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:52 pm to
quote:

My new fear is that I won’t heal.


You're going to make a self fulfilling prophecy if you're not careful. Don't take the coward's way out. Be a man and grow from it. Some guys get their legs blown off of them in their 20s and if they can make it, so can you. The pain will pass unless you make it your only focus, which is what you are doing. There's plenty of good women out there. Just be a good dude and you'll find one. At least you got one of the wrong ones out of your life.
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