re: NM

Been married 28 years and can honestly say after the first 5 I can't believe we made it this long. It was work and it still is at times. Most of the time when I look back at the rough times, it was my own damn fault. People see divorce as the easy way out. This country is full of quitters. Buck up and be a man and figure out why your wife is so different than what she was when you married her. Chances are it is you that changed, not her. Kids, especially at two years old are a drain on a couple's relationship. Women don't feel sexy and men feel neglected. Trust me, the older your kids get, the easier it gets. We are on year 29 and I swear it gets better every day.