re: Marriage over or salvageable?

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How often did she used to initiate?

Has she changed or have your expectations?

Are your expectations realistic?

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She has never really initiated even from the start of our marriage. We were both virgins until we got married, so I didn't really realize until after we got married that there was a big mismatch in our sex drives (that's a mistake mostly on my end for being a virgin till I was married though I supposed). She just doesn't really need sex in her life, she's more than content to just being a mother now. Not quite as extreme, but maybe a very mild version of someone like Shania Twain who only had sex if it was for purposes of procreation. Like if I didn't initiate it, she'd totally be fine having sex one a month or once a year and be no worse for wear.