re: When You Feel Like You're Lost In Life

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We all struggling op, it will be okay

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This.

I know you don’t won’t to hear it but it could always get so much worse.

I’ve been in and out of remission for cancer the last 19 years, lost my wife 9 years ago. I’m just sharing my personal experience and you don’t have to believe what I believe. I’ve been through hell and wanted to give up severs times but by the grace of God I persevered and I’ve been blessed more than I could’ve ever hoped. There for a while I thought I’d never know what’s it feel like to be happy with my life but these last 6 years have been incredible.

I don’t know what all you may be dealing with. Substance abuse, manic, etc but get help. Make the decision that you’ll no longer be the victim. Grab life by the balls, set realistic goals, stop putting pressure on yourself trying to find a woman you like. The right one will enter your life when you least expect it.

Don’t give up though. I don’t care how much money a person may have and they could have everything they wanted but that person will still hit hard times. Life is literally a series of stretches peaks and lows. I don’t care who it is. I can guarantee you things will get better. The worst thing we can do is wallow in self pity. And I’m sure your family loves and cares for you deeply. It’d be chicken shite to look for the easy way out and selfish. Hold on and hang in there my friend. Live in the moment and don’t fret about tomorrow. You only have control over your actions.

One day you’ll look back at this period and think that was a rough patch but I made it through and wouldn’t be the man I am today had I not pushed through it.

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I am in my 39s and never married myself.

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Very specific on your age and I’ve never married myself either.

Your name infers you love nature. Get somewhere that isn’t the surface of the sun (north of the mason dixon) and go on a walkabout. Get back in touch with nature, feel the cool mist on your face again, and most importantly, examine your relationship with your creator. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and live it for something other than yourself for once. It will change your perspective on everything.

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Any updates?

Just want to see where your head space is at today.

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Probably spread across the bathroom wall.