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re: When to know when making right decision of having dog put down?

Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:19 am to
Posted by Kattail
Member since Aug 2020
3390 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:19 am to
He’s dying now, ask yourself if you want to prolong his suffering or put him out of his misery? It’s hard, I still struggle with my decision to put my dog down.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39587 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:24 am to
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he was diagnosed with kidney failure.


My kidneys operate at aboot 31%, and my wife wants to know what/when you decide.

Seriously, Baw, when your pup's quality of life is gone, or if he is suffering, you owe it to him to make that call. Just make sure he gets his final favorite treats, chicken, steak, or whatever, and know that the next few hours are going to suck.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11714 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:42 am to
I put mine down yesterday. I just knew it. He had a sarcoma. We decided not to treat because he was pushing 15 years old. Wednesday and theusday morning he had trouble eating and was visibly confused. He was a big tough stoic dog so no telling how long he'd been in pain. I didn't want to drag it out. Toughest decision I've ever made. Had been stressed knowing it was coming for a while but am relieved now that it's over. I cried like a lil bitch then went to work. When I got home and he wasn't in the window waiting for me I lost it again.

Cut up half of a backstrap and fed it to him in lil pieces before.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 10:45 am
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
5079 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:03 am to
There almost never is that "perfect time" when it comes to this decision. If this is end stage kidney disease, then yes, its going to get worse. As it progresses the symptoms and discomfort for Billy will increase. It's whenever you think the balance is tilted to where he is in more discomfort than good.

Euthanasia is very peaceful. The vet will anesthetize or sedate him before giving him the final drug that will cause the euthanasia. Its not painful at all. My biggest advice is to be there for at least the anesthesia or sedation. Billy looks at you as the pack leader and for comfort. having you there will make him more comfortable. If that's too hard i understand. but i have had many people tell me afterwards that it made them feel better in the end.

dont feel guilty at all for thinking you are doing it too early or that its not time. you know, you know your dog best. if you are thinking its might be time, it probably is.
Posted by CootKilla
In a beer can/All dog's nightmares
Member since Jul 2007
5929 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:10 am to
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He doesn't want to eat, sleeps all day, lethargy, incontinence and this sad look in his face.


If he isn't eating then it is time. It was the hardest drive of my life when I had to bring my 16 year old lab to the vet.
Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
5586 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 11:30 am to
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Anybody here had a similar situation of when to make the final decision of driving your loved pet to the clinic to be euthanized? I'm having a hard time about this decision.

I’ve had to make this decision recently. It’s admittedly difficult. My Lab was old, barely mobile only with help, and in pain. My reluctance frankly was selfish not wanting to let her go and find the rest she deserved. I insisted I be with her when she was put to sleep. It makes a difference to them being with the human they love and who loves them. I encourage you to do the same. I think you know the right thing to do. I’m sorry you have to make the decision.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
71800 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:03 pm to
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He doesn't want to eat, sleeps all day, lethargy, incontinence and this sad look in his face.


Sounds like it's time.

If he still got joy out of something - anything - you could still wait.
Posted by KajunLass
Member since Apr 2022
194 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:15 pm to
Your faithful and loyal friend of all these years cannot speak, but he is begging you to end his misery.

It's tough, but it is the right decision.
Posted by Barbellthor
Columbia
Member since Aug 2015
8643 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:21 pm to
When they have daily hurt, don't have many happy/energetic days, and can't control their bladder.

Then wait for a good day. When they play a little. Gove them some steak. Play some slow fetch. Love on them. See the happy in their eyes. Let them go out on top.
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55670 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 12:25 pm to
I’m still riddled with guilt for doing this almost 2 years ago. At the time I knew it was the right time and I knew I was easing her suffering, But two years later I still question it and feel guilty even though I know she was suffering and dying. It’s just tough, no matter what you do
Posted by Sneauxghost
Member since Sep 2020
1108 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 1:12 pm to
Done it. Twice in 2018. It’s unbelievably hard. I did it alone and held them to the end. I should’ve had someone to drive in hindsight. Say everything you want now. Write a letter to him in a month. Prayers
Posted by tigahbruh
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2014
2858 posts
Posted on 6/10/22 at 1:32 pm to
If he stopped eating and seems miserable it is time to put him down. Cruel to him if you don't.

Recently had to put an old girl down. Devastating and I'm tearing up as I type, but I didnt want her to suffer anymore.

Say your goodbyes and know he was always your friend. Be a good one to him. A "natural death" is painful and torturous. Before the vet will euthanize him, they will give him a sedative and allow you some time alone while he's not feeling pain. Then,when it does happen, he will simply go to sleep with no pain, the memory of your loving presence his last.



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