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re: How does a family do it financially

Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:46 pm to
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:46 pm to
Our household income is around 400k and I’m not sure we could afford to miss a few paychecks.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:46 pm to
Children are grown, home paid for, student loans paid for, my car has a note. We both work part time and are able to save about $800 a month. We help our children/grandchildren on occasions. We are mindful but extremely grateful to be able to save
Posted by rocksteady
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:46 pm to
Both maxing 401ks, like to dine out, 18% mortgage, save $1500 - sounds about right. Probably dropping 1k+ on restaurants, but if that’s y’all’s thing go for it
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:47 pm to
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18% of take home pay seems really low to me

Our mortgage is 13% of our take home income.
Posted by lsupride87
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:48 pm to
Then you likely bought a house a long time ago, make a lot of money, or live in a very cheap house
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:49 pm to
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We both max out our 401k’s.


You're putting $40k in your 401k
Posted by lsupride87
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:51 pm to
40k would be combined
Posted by PhiTiger1764
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:52 pm to
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I think you should still find a way to max out your 401k match but much of the rest isn't necessary.

But what if you want to retire before age 67 and do more than just “exist” during retirement?
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:52 pm to
Im not talking about take home im talking gross income like what lenders look at and I assume op was talking about.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:54 pm to
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Then you likely bought a house a long time ago, make a lot of money, or live in a very cheap house

A little bit of all but we aren't rich. We bought a house way under what we could afford when prices were still depressed from the last housing collapse. We also had a kid in private school at the time so we factored that in but we don't anymore.
Posted by lsupride87
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:54 pm to
Gotcha
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:54 pm to
It is all about priorities. Those of us who are older have been through rough financial times before. Many of us adopted habits like saving a percentage of each paycheck, finding the best prices on things we need, etc.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:54 pm to
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I assume op was talking about.


Why would you assume that when it is pretty obvious that's not it
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:55 pm to
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But what if you want to retire before age 67 and do more than just “exist” during retirement?

Eating out 3 days per week and stuff like that? That's not necessary.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:56 pm to
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But what if you want to retire before age 67 and do more than just “exist” during retirement?
You don’t need to max out your retirement accounts for that

If you truly max out your accounts as a couple for 30 years, you are going to have a shite ton saved for retirement
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 5:57 pm to
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You don’t need to max out your retirement accounts for that

I think you should max out the match, not necessarily the government maximum. That's 50-100% returns you're leaving on the table if you don't

ETA - this assumes that you have a company match
This post was edited on 6/5/22 at 5:59 pm
Posted by PhiTiger1764
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 6:00 pm to
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Eating out 3 days per week and stuff like that? That's not necessary.

I was more talking about the reasonable mortgage, saving $1500 month, maxing retirement.

I agree that maxing two 401ks is overkill. But you have to do more than “max out the match.”
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 6:04 pm to
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I agree that maxing two 401ks is overkill. But you have to do more than “max out the match.”

When you are young and your expenses are high not really. Unless your match sucks. If it's 6% that's probably pretty sufficient for awhile but you'll be able to pay in more as you get older most likely. We were never more broke than being in our late 20s with kids paying daycare etc.
Posted by Indfanfromcol
LSU
Member since Jan 2011
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Posted on 6/5/22 at 6:05 pm to
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How does a family do it financially


By having already owned a home before the pandemic. First time home buyers today who also have kids (especially if paying for daycare)? Sucks to suck.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64665 posts
Posted on 6/5/22 at 6:05 pm to
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Why would you assume that when it is pretty obvious that's not it


I re-read op, I still don't see where it's obvious he is talking about take-home regarding his mortgage payment. Secondly, I guess working in the mortgage business for years as a loan officer had me thinking like everyone else in the business thinks- gross income when measuring DTI and PITI payments. Now kindly frick off, Mingo.
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