WhereIsMyBestLife

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not sure wtf this is supposed to mean

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It means, if you are arrested without cause and you take it to court the municipality is almost guaranteed to settle with you, with taxpayer dollars.

It happens all the time.

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You have to answer their questions

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There is literally never a case where this is true outside of court.

How can anyone who loved their wife and son listen to this testimony without breaking down?

I would be a blubbering mess.

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As well it should be, seeing how it’s unconstitutional.
There are flaws and perils with freedom. Security is one of them.

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I agree.

Stop and frisk made a dent but it didn't last.

The long term answer isnt tyrannical prevention, it's unashamed conviction.

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A post apocalyptic hell where you’re being exterminated and/or farmed by robots.

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If the machines knew the direction the world would take in 2020, they would have chosen the matrix to be in the dark ages instead.

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Good luck with your relationship with your child when you tell her how her wedding must be handled.

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LOL. If your daughter gets pissy when you want to have some input into the wedding you are footing the bill for, then you failed as a parent somewhere already.

I for one would not be surprised if he is convicted just because the jury knows he is going away for the rest of his life, so what does it hurt to convict and give everyone a sense of closure, even if he actually didnt do it?

This guy is getting in some closing arguments during cross. Nice.

Married 12 years, wonderful wife and mother with one major exception: an absolute fish in the bedroom. No desire whatsoever. We've done counseling and tried therapies, and obviously have talked it out and fought it out: nothing changes.

It wasn't always like this. In our early years she was all over me. We have since had kids and developed hella more responsibilities so some slowdown is not unexpected. But her major excuse for her complete disinterest is that we don't do the same things as when it was just us, so she doesn't feel the same feels. No shite, woman! That hasn't dampened my desire! And the wonderful mother you've evolved into only adds to my fire. But I guess its the opposite for her. She apparently wants to have me around as husband and father and provider, but frick my 24 year old self.

I know the honorable thing would be to divorce but I refuse to do that to the kids. This is an itch that is not getting scratched and it has become so intolerable it is causing resentment that is bleeding into other areas. My family deserves better. I have to scratch this itch without them knowing.

An opportunity has presented itself. A couple I know just divorced. The wife made a pass at me a few years ago. At the time I played dumb. But since then rumors have swirled that she is a freak and they were members of the pineapple gang (makes sense looking back). Now she says she is job hunting in another city so she won't be around long. I think if I am clear upfront that this will just be a sex transaction that it won't deter her from leaving and I will be in the clear, itch scratched and I can release the resentment so harbored and be a better member of my family.

I am still on the fence here and could really use some poignant thoughts to help me decide what to do. If you've pulled off a successful affair I would really like to hear your story and advice.