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re: Dog dementia - when to let go

Posted by CoquiGeaux on 7/9/25 at 12:32 am to
I am so sorry to hear about your dear old friend! I feel for anyone facing that dreadful decision. Our beloved furries are never with us long enough!

I recently (May 19th) went through the same with my Golden girl. She'd been my guardian angel and sunshine of my life for 14 years. When she began displaying the same dementia type symptoms you described, I promised her that I would never allow her to suffer.

I knew over some time that we were getting closer to that day. I came home that Friday and her back end had stopped working. She spent the entire weekend lying in the same spot, my other furries and me loving on her. I prayed all weekend that she would go on her own because I didn't think I could make the decision. Monday rolled around and I knew.

I asked the vet about options, knowing there were none, but grasping at straws. After some discussion, the vet gave me this...Do you want to remember Maggie this way- still smiling and positive, the way she's been her whole life or hold on to her knowing nothing can be done and watching her decline? She also said she'd never had someone wish they'd waited, but lots who wish they hadn't waited so long.

I knew it was time and I let her go all the while holding her hand and letting her know how much I LOVED her with every fiber of my being!

People say you'll know when the time is right and you absolutely will. You know your dog, trust yourself! There is not one day that I regret making the decision when I did. Her quality of life had gone down and she trusted me to take care of her. I miss her so much!

Take care of yourselves and your furry pal. I'm praying for your wisdom and strength in this difficult time. God bless your family, human and furry!

SW Iowa Golden mom
My dad (Air Force) left from Langley AFB for Desert Storm on Dec. 26, 1990. Day after my 17th birthday. Was in the AWACS...stayed 4 months, came home and retired a year later. 26 year career. So proud!!
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I early voted today and it was the longest it's ever taken. I had an elderly couple in front of me and 2 ladies behind me. 5 mins in and out.

Too many damn people moving in around here!
As an F4 Phantom military brat myself...it's classic heavy metal, loud and awesome! The "Big Ugly"
Thank you for this thread!! As the daughter of a proud retired USAF fighter pilot (26 years), I have truly enjoyed it. I'm unapologetically a USA-lovin patriot, can't possibly imagine not being this way!

Always been partial to the F4. Dad flew this one in his early career (Vietnam Era)

He also flew: F15 (Iceland), T-38, and AWACS (Desert Storm)

Couldn't be prouder of him :usa:
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re: Post a picture of your dog

Posted by CoquiGeaux on 3/26/20 at 10:11 pm to
Our alarm system

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Maggie- 8 1/2 yo Golden Retriever



Wrex- 4 yo Chinook



Tali- 4 1/2 yo German Shepherd Dog


Ghost in the Graveyard
Dirt clod fights
Snow Forts, Snowball fights
Red Rover
How high can you get/how far can you jump off the swings?
Swing around the high bar holding on only with your legs


Thanks for the memories and the smiles!
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I was following this dear doggie's thread all day yesterday with an extremely heavy heart...I feel for you and your family! Most difficult decision a pet owner has to make. :wah:

Sending my most heartfelt thoughts and prayers as y'all traverse this most difficult day. Thinking of you!

Reesie seemed like a perfect addition to your family. She'll continue to watch over you and your family...she won't be far!
I see this every day in my elementary school. Kids love to tell on each other, throw everyone else under the bus, but when the tables turn and they are the "victim" of the telling, all hell breaks loose!

3rd grader: He/she called me a name...
Me: What did you call him/her first?


Crickets...
This is a timely topic...I just got out of a boot on June 20th. Was sitting in a recliner and my foot fell asleep. I thought it had enough feeling and walked on it. I had an avulsion fracture about midfoot.

I did exactly what the Dr ordered... elevated, iced, Aleve, stayed off of it when possible and wore the boot religiously! 11 weeks, completely healed.

Like an earlier poster, I still deal with swelling when I wear my regular sized shoes but other than that, I'm good to go.

Dr knew what he was talking about... why else would you go see one?

I'm an elementary school teacher. Today I told one of my students he was "annoying".

Sorry I ruined his future in public service.
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I’ve only lived here for a few months, and I already have tremendous respect for Cornhusker fans. It’s a very passionate fan base for such a dog shite team. Every Friday and Saturday there is red everywhere.


Thank you for that! Real Husker fans are deeply dedicated! Hoping Frost can turn us around...we'll give him some time!
[quote]He locking down the votes in Iowa and Nebraska. Huge GO BIG RED. Nebraskans rocking the house the tonight.[/iuote]

WOOHOO...Listen to those Nebraskans making noise. Trump mentioned a wonderful man, a fantastic coach and a fabulous example of what it means to be a Nebraskan! Love us some Tom Osborne!! GO BIG RED!!

LOVE the Midwest. Terrific place to raise a family and #MAGA
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Given the way our system of government currently functions, Brett Kavanaugh is now one of the nine most powerful people in the country. We should all have such ruined lives.


Damn straight! Have a bagful of upvotes on me (if I could) :cheers: