re: Did this ex-gay fellow's genetics change? or is there another explanation?

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To Geaux, I have just as much right and authority to post about this as you do. I do not tell you what to post or call you various names because of your ignorance so please stop doing so to me when I am much, much better informed than you.

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As usual, your emotions get the better of you during conversations about this topic. At no point did I suggest you had no right to do anything...from post in this thread to suck a cock. It's all fine by me.

I was simply asking, because you DO make yourself VERY visible in these threads, if you could shed some light on this topic in a more personal way. It's not just that you feel the need to inform in these threads, you're incredibly hostile and come off far worse than most of the normal knuckle draggers here in your efforts to slam homosexual men...despite the fact that you are/used to be one. I find that, well...strange.

So I asked an honest question as it's only something I can assume based on my own personal experience and the anecdotes of others. For myself, I never chose my sexual identity. I was attracted to girls from the time I felt attraction. To say I made a choice in that regard is a bastardization of the word. So to call homosexuality a choice, one is suggesting that ALL sexual attraction is a choice and therefore we are ALL equally attracted to both men and women and have to chose to go down one road and abandon the other, or no one makes a choice in regards to which sex they are attracted to...or, and here's the least likely I think...heterosexuals do not chose but homosexuals do. That seems absurd on many levels.

So...in your case, when you decided to start having sex men with...did you make that choice in the face of being equally attracted to women, or were you not attracted to women and went down the road that felt most natural to you? If you were equally attracted to both, then why men? Why make that choice given your religiosity...given the societal mores you had to break to do it?

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los angeles tiger

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I'm sure this has been covered before, but were you gay at some point in your life? The language you use when addressing this issue that is obviously important to you suggests personal experience.

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ou choose to act upon and must be disciplined and controlled.

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they don't get that, nor do many women, anymore. Since they don't understand that people can grow in self discipline, the hardest of which is often sexual disipline, they instead argue everything from an undisiplined perspective. They also project this perspective onto a cross section of people as if everyone must be just as undisciplined. It doesn't take great intellect to understand that men are more aggressive sexually, and when you put two aggressors together you get some really trashy shite ranging from quickies in public bathroom stalls to the type of things you described. And yet politically, you only hear of the romantic love side of things. Young women are the worst at believing the "romanticizing" and dismissing the truly discussing aspects such as the type of predator rape that takes place and can initiate young men into that lifestyle. They truly don't see things because they don't want to see them for what they really are, even if someone that had experience in that lifestyle tells them the truth. sigh

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Young women are the worst at believing the "romanticizing" and dismissing the truly discussing aspects such as the type of predator rape that takes place and can initiate young men into that lifestyle. They truly don't see things because they don't want to see them for what they really are, even if someone that had experience in that lifestyle tells them the truth. sigh

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Never had any daughters, but I imagine having a daughter these days would push me over the edge. I don't know how many young women I told to never have sex with a guy if you think that's what it takes to make him love you. It's a cart before the horse thingy that can wreck someone's life.

I might be digging up some bones here, but I'm pretty sure there's an Alabama fan who wishes he'd kept his package in his pocket instead of putting it on an LSU drunk in a Krystals in Nola. It's just simple self-discipline and self-respect, as well as respect for others. No rocket surgery required.