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re: Why do people cheat?

Posted on 4/19/18 at 4:50 pm to
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 4/19/18 at 4:50 pm to
quote:

I know it will get better.. I know I didn’t do anything wrong. I didn’t get fat, i never said no in the bedroom, I never stopped trying to keep that spark. I was faithful, always. When approached by men, I shut it down.


That’s admirable of you.


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I think it’s something missing in him, or something is broken..and I just have to accept I can’t fix him.


It really is. It just happens. The temptation strikes and sometimes we just don’t have what it takes to fight it, sadly.

I’m sure you are a lovely woman so try not to let it eat at your ego.

The single parent thing isn’t so bad.

This post was edited on 4/19/18 at 5:10 pm
Posted by RaeMac22
Member since Dec 2016
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Posted on 4/19/18 at 4:51 pm to
Thanks!
Posted by RaeMac22
Member since Dec 2016
38 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 4:53 pm to
I’m not here to fix anyone... unfortunately I didn’t keep my receipt and so now it’s going to be a long expensive process to get my refund
Posted by member12
Bob's Country Bunker
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 4/19/18 at 4:54 pm to
Maybe it is a sense of loneliness. It happens in marriages.
Posted by RaeMac22
Member since Dec 2016
38 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 4:58 pm to
Strangely my ego hasn’t been affected much.. he married up... I married down.. still hurts to be betrayed.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133112 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 5:01 pm to
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Strangely my ego hasn’t been affected much.. he married up... I married down.. still hurts to be betrayed.


I know all too well just how much That betrayal hurts. It really breaks you. Leaves you with a million questions.

And maybe it’s different with women. had I known you were a woman to start off with I probably wouldn’t have gone into all the depraved details.

Posted by RaeMac22
Member since Dec 2016
38 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 5:04 pm to
I appreciated the depraved details, which is why I withheld my gender... I didn’t say one way or another because I wanted honesty.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133112 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 5:06 pm to
well you definitely got honesty.

If you don’t mind hit me up on the gmail. I have a few questions that probably don’t need to be on the OT.

I probably said too much already.

Plus I actually have some writing out there you might be interested in.

This post was edited on 4/19/18 at 5:07 pm
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 5:24 pm to
Maybe he was bored?
Posted by dfintlyHmmrd
Jigga City
Member since Dec 2016
1408 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 5:26 pm to
quote:

slum it with the nastiest thing that crawls out of a gutter


These girls will do things a hot wife would never dream of doing for you
Posted by Amazing Moves
Member since Jan 2014
6174 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 6:23 pm to
We suppress our animal instinct to mate by not "cheating" with a willing suitable person. Particularly one that's hot and wants to frick.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 6:29 pm to
Welcome back to the dating pool.

How you doin'?
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116798 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 6:31 pm to
Fr33 will give you honesty no matter what.

This post was edited on 4/19/18 at 6:46 pm
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133112 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 6:53 pm to
True, but there’s a nuanced difference in the delivery.

Plus if i’d known she was a woman I could have given her a better perspective of what she was looking for. A little softer on the edges. Not as ribald. There’s a difference in the way men cheat and the way women do it.

I find women to be much crueler about it.

And I probably wouldn’t have gone into as much into the depraved details.


ETA: and I probably would have told her about some of the writing i’ve Done more geared to the fairer sex.
This post was edited on 4/19/18 at 6:55 pm
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116798 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 6:58 pm to
Women are not always more cruel.

I’ve got stories that could rival any of yours

These threads are so fricking depressing, btw
This post was edited on 4/19/18 at 6:59 pm
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133112 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 6:59 pm to
quote:

Women are not always more cruel.


Not always, but often. The way women hurt is different then the way men do.

quote:

I’ve got stories that could rival any of yours


Hit me up sometime and we’ll trade.

ETA:
These threads are so fricking depressing, btw

I agree. I wish it wasn’t a subject in which I was so well versed.
This post was edited on 4/19/18 at 7:01 pm
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116798 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 7:00 pm to
I bet I win
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133112 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 7:01 pm to
You know how to get in touch,

Okay, i’ve Got a date. Time to sear some duck breasts and make a meat and cheese plate. Ciao.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116798 posts
Posted on 4/19/18 at 7:02 pm to
Have fun!
Posted by LongueCarabine
Pointe Aux Pins, LA
Member since Jan 2011
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Posted on 4/19/18 at 7:17 pm to
"You see, the hold that little cooter has on a man’s life is unbreakable. It can bring a strong man to his knees.” -

Prentice Ritter
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