RaeMac22

No, he is a great cop and definitely still employed.

I don’t believe anyone on here with an actual medical license would give the advice to put it off. Don’t be that guy in the ER. Urgent Care will suffice. Good luck!

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Oh those crusty socks.. if only their fathers had made the right decision and shot them into a fluffy white tube sock.

I appreciated the depraved details, which is why I withheld my gender... I didn’t say one way or another because I wanted honesty.

I’m not here to fix anyone... unfortunately I didn’t keep my receipt and so now it’s going to be a long expensive process to get my refund

I know it will get better.. I know I didn’t do anything wrong. I didn’t get fat, i never said no in the bedroom, I never stopped trying to keep that spark. I was faithful, always. When approached by men, I shut it down. I think it’s something missing in him, or something is broken..and I just have to accept I can’t fix him. It’s unfortunate.. but it’s reality.

Just to clarify.. I’m mommy.. he cheated, not me. She’s old enough to ask questions, but I would never tell her what happened.. I just meant now I have to explain why things are going to be different. I never really posted or read anything on here much. I see a lot of people are tired of this question so I’m assuming I’m one of many. I really just needed to see if anyone could or would give an honest answer.. in our scenario there was no lack of affection/attention given (on my part.. much lacking on his), there was no belittling from either party. We had a lot of good times, but when the work got stressful or life got stressful he needed an escape I guess. I think for him it would fall under the “insecurity” category. It’s hard to imagine the person you vowed to spend your life with could really be someone you never really knew.. but it happens. I never thought I would be that statistic.. but here I am barely 30 and on my way to divorce. I don’t hate him though. Wish I could. I hope he finds what he was looking for. Like I said from the beginning.. no judging to those who have cheated.. I just don’t think I could ever hurt someone like that... becuase let me tell you, if I were weaker I would probably implode.

I really can’t imagine being married that long and then having the person I spent that time with show me I never really knew them.. lucky for me I only wasted 4 years. Not so lucky for me, I have to explain it to my child.

True enough! Signs are always there.. and if it happens once I don’t think you can really ever confidently believe it won’t again.. human nature tends to follow patterns.. I think it’s either in you to do it or not..