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re: Why are you husbands so insecure about your wives?
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:21 pm to Epic Cajun
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:21 pm to Epic Cajun
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Really? I’ve had lunch with female coworkers on countless occasions alone and never once did it cross my mind that it was “inappropriate”. Maybe it comes with the territory as I was in a female dominated undergrad major, and have largely worked with females. My boss is a female, and I couldn’t count the times that I’ve had lunch with her alone over the 15+ years that I’ve known her. I’ve been married for 9 years.
Exactly.
I just can't imagine going through life feeling so insecure.
If you don't trust them to have lunch in public why did you even marry them?
Apparently the insecure guys know deep down that their wives are whores and/or they know that can't satisfy their wives.
This post was edited on 6/9/22 at 10:22 pm
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Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:24 pm to LSU in the hizzle
I get where you’re coming from. I don’t see the big deal in having lunch with a childhood friend to catch up. Esp when y’all work right next to each other. Not like you’re going out each others way to meet up or have anything sinister behind it. Some people are just over protective. Idk if your married/gf or single but if you’re in a relationship yourself maybe say we should grab our better halves and go to dinner or grab a few drinks one night. I do that with a girl I grew up with when she is in town. We all have a good time. My wife and the girl get a long great.
This post was edited on 6/9/22 at 10:47 pm
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:25 pm to LSU in the hizzle
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I doubt that she would care if I had lunch with a childhood friend, a married on at that.
You don’t have to doubt. You can ask her.
Tell her that she squealed, ran up to you and squeezed your neck, and then you asked her to coffee or dinner.
You won’t because even in your Asperger’s haze, you understand that you were a weirdo
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:26 pm to Hester Carries
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:27 pm to LSU in the hizzle
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Lunch of coffee with a childhood friend equates to a date and cheating?
Without the husband knowing about it? Yeah, pretty much from the husbands prospective.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:32 pm to Hester Carries
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You don’t have to doubt. You can ask her.
Tell her that she squealed, ran up to you and squeezed your neck, and then you asked her to coffee or dinner.
You won’t because even in your Asperger’s haze, you understand that you were a weirdo
Ok weirdo, let me break it down so even your pea brain can understand.
She starts grilling me with "how are the parents, how is your sister, what's she up to" questions.
I was late for a meeting, I didn't have time to chat.
Instead of being rude I offered to have lunch or cup of coffee to catch up.
I didn't even want to, just being polite.
I have a girlfriend, she is married, the lunch would be nothing but old friends continuing the conversation and catching up.
I can't imagine going through life so insecure and paranoid that my wife having lunch with a childhood friend would give me a nervous breakdown.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:35 pm to gizmothepug
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Without the husband knowing about it? Yeah, pretty much from the husbands prospective.
married people are weird.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:37 pm to LSU in the hizzle
Just tell your girlfriend and tell us what she says dude
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:37 pm to LSU in the hizzle
Zero jealousy chez xiv. It’s great being married to an adult.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:41 pm to xiv
Why didn't the OP just suggest a double date? He and his GF and her and her husband to catch up?
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:43 pm to LSU in the hizzle
Sound like you jumped before the race started....:(
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:44 pm to bcoop199
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Why didn't the OP just suggest a double date? He and his GF and her and her husband to catch up?
I was talking about having lunch.
We work in office buildings across from each other.
My girlfriend doesn't work anywhere near me.
I have not clue who her husband is, let alone where he works.
The offer to meet for lunch was merely to be polite and to continue the conversation instead of being rude and saying "late for a meeting, gotta run" to a friend that I had not seen in 10 years.
A bunch of psycho, jealous, insecure husbands on this board.
If your wife is a slut, why did you marry her?
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:03 pm to LSU in the hizzle
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:06 pm to SJS101
Insecurity and paranoia?
No, I don't get it.
I wasn't offering to meet her at a bar or club.
Grabbing lunch to finish answering her "how's the family and where are they now etc" questions.
I feel bad for people that are that insecure.
Must be a miserable existence.
Most of the insecure loser husbands wouldn't worry as much if they realized that their wives aren't as desirable as they think they are.
No, I don't get it.
I wasn't offering to meet her at a bar or club.
Grabbing lunch to finish answering her "how's the family and where are they now etc" questions.
I feel bad for people that are that insecure.
Must be a miserable existence.
Most of the insecure loser husbands wouldn't worry as much if they realized that their wives aren't as desirable as they think they are.
This post was edited on 6/9/22 at 11:09 pm
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:14 pm to LSU in the hizzle
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Just being cordial since she ran to say hello and give me a hug.
Didn't think it was any big deal.
That’s because you were thinking with your dong and you’re fooling yourself if you say otherwise.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:15 pm to LSU in the hizzle
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married people are weird.
Not really, but if a husband or wife go out to lunch with someone of the opposite sex without letting the significant other know then it’s probably already a lost cause. Women can cheat anytime, a man cheats because of the opportunity he might stubble upon.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:15 pm to finchmeister08
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That’s because you were thinking with your dong and you’re fooling yourself if you say otherwise.
I was just being chivalrous.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:16 pm to LSU in the hizzle
Nah, you were just a bee trying to get your stinger wet.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:18 pm to LSU in the hizzle
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Insecurity and paranoia? No, I don't get it. I wasn't offering to meet her at a bar or club. Grabbing lunch to finish answering her "how's the family and where are they now etc" questions. I feel bad for people that are that insecure. Must be a miserable existence. Most of the insecure loser husbands wouldn't worry as much if they realized that their wives aren't as desirable as they think they are.
If you had the chance to take her to bed, you would, just as long as the husband that would possibly kill you didn’t find out. Simple as that. Go Troll somewhere else with this BS.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 11:19 pm to LSU in the hizzle
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EDIT: Clarification since people seem to be confused. As I said , when she chased me down I was heading back to the office. I didn't have time to chit chat. Since she works near my office I thought that instead of saying " hey, nice to see you, running late, bye" that I would be cordial and say "hey, let's grab a coffee or lunch sometime" since she worked across the street.
Geesh, you fellas don't have much confidence that you're able to please your woman if you're that terrified of her having lunch or coffee with an old childhood friend.
I would hate to go through life so pathetic and insecure.
This guy doesn’t frick
ETA: If she immediately shot down your coffee/lunch suggestion maybe she is creeped the frick out by you
Can’t imagine running off a former acquaintance that quickly
Hope your original handle gets reinstated
This post was edited on 6/9/22 at 11:28 pm
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